Nice to see you!

Three major events occurred for me last year (2010), all in the space of about 2 weeks. I turned 50. The following day I got married. Two weeks later, my oldest daughter became pregnant with her first child and my first grandchild.

Most middle-aged people will tell you that in their minds, they still feel 20 something. It's the same for me.

Wasn't it only yesterday that I was planning a night out with guys from the surf club? That gorgeous new perm. Flaired, cuffed denims and the red t-shirt with the off-the-shoulder frill. Corked platform wedgies. **sigh**

Suddenly I'm looking in the mirror and wondering how 30 years can flash by so damned quickly!

So here I am in cyberspace, sharing my genuine shock and horror with anyone who'll listen and maybe I'll even meet some other over 50s who find themselves in the same predicament!

Welcome to my dilemna!!

Tuesday, March 3, 2026

What’s New?

Nothing is new.

My garden is growing well and I still haven’t taken a photo - must do that tomorrow!

Harley is still perfect.

The weather is hot with intermittent showers, and apparently will get wetter as the week goes on.

I’ve not done anything productive, other than cooking meals.

Distractions like online games, YouTube videos, catching up on Australian Idol, Netflix movies etc have helped the hours pass.

I have a list of jobs that need doing around the house but am struggling to find the energy, motivation and strength to do any of them. I’ll get there eventually. If I want them done properly, I have to do them myself - I have left those jobs in other people’s hand for years now and quite frankly, it’s farcical.

No meditation this morning because The Gypsy was not well.

Now I think I shall curl up for sleep.





Nite all.

Tuesday, February 24, 2026

Life Goes On

Still nothing exciting happening here.

Monday was a quiet day on the couch (what else is new) and my only other activities were playing with Harley, tending my garden and cooking dinner.

Today was meditation day and even though it was a struggle to get out of bed, I was still 5 minutes late. Apparently, all but one person was late to class!

I enjoyed 2.5 hours with The Gypsy afterwards. We had a LOT to catch up on because we hadn’t seen each other for two weeks.

Adoring Husband had a doctor’s appointment to have his stitches removed, so I had to ride my trike to class. I had a head wind on the way there, which was a struggle, especially because it’s been quite a few weeks since I last rode.

Thankfully, it was a tail wind on the return trip.

AH was home by the time I arrived and BGWLBH was in the Bay.

At 1pm, I sat down to eat my lunch and watch a fluffy movie, followed by Australian Idol catch up.

AH had a little nap on his chair.

This afternoon, I felt quite unwell and it was a real struggle to move myself off the bed to cook dinner. I managed to throw a stack of food in a baking pan and put it in the oven for an hour. At the end of the hour, I steamed asparagus and carrots with garlic and butter to have with.

I came straight to bed after dinner to nurse my tender tummy.

I did NOT win OzLotto $40million tonight. Sad but true. I had big plans to help so many people.

Now it’s time to sleep.


Nite all.

Sunday, February 22, 2026

Daily Doings

Tomorrow I will take photos of my vegetable garden. It’s doing very nicely!

My days have consisted of gardening, Harley play, laundry, making fresh batches of colloidal silver, garden research, watching movies, cooking, decluttering and napping.

Adoring Husband’s leg is still looking infected - maybe a slight improvement.

The weather has been very hot. 

Now it’s almost 11pm so it’s sleep time for me.









Nite all.

Thursday, February 19, 2026

Summer Ending

On Wednesday, we had the pest man in to check for termites. 

Adoring Husband found evidence of them near the pool area, so we got the guy out as soon as we could. Thankfully, no termites/white ants were found anywhere in or around the house, so we can rest easy.

Last Tuesday (10th), Adoring Husband had a SCC surgically removed from his right leg.

Yesterday, we noticed that it was becoming infected, so he phoned his doctor’s surgery and was lucky to be given an early appointment for today.

We drove in this morning where both the nurse and a different doctor (his usual doctor was absent) confirmed that it was indeed infected and prescribed antibiotics. They also removed 2 of the 8 stitches because they were pulling.

From there, (and you may not believe this) I requested AH take me to Bunnings! 😳

I needed some sugar cane mulch for my new garden, some smallish trellis structures for my beans, peas and cucumber to climb and a washing basket, which I’ll use to grow potatoes.

So far, everything is sprouting beautifully and I’m pretty motivated to keep it thriving.

We had a few other errands to run but were home by 1pm and after unpacking everything, I found my bed and relaxed for the afternoon catching up on this week’s Australian Idol. I also squeezed in a short nap.

For dinner, I cooked that 70s classic, Apricot Chicken! I haven’t cooked or eaten apricot chicken for a good 30 years and it did not taste the way I remembered it, but I still enjoyed it.

I missed morning tea with my art girls.

BGWLBH went to work in the art/craft shop.

The weather is glorious.

Now I’m ready for sleep.





Nite all.

Tuesday, February 17, 2026

A Long One

I posted an opinion piece, much shorter than this, but providing the same information, at least a decade ago - probably 13 years ago, when Adoring Husband and I quit drinking after his Parkinson’s diagnosis.

There may be some bad language. I’ve removed most of it, but I may have missed one or two f-bombs…

Top Ten Truths About Alcohol That Nobody in the Industry or Government Wants You to Know

Veteran here. 45 years of drinking. Over a year sober. Let me tell you some uncomfortable truths about alcohol that the £1.5 trillion industry and the governments taking tax money from your poisoning really don't want discussed.

Buckle up. This gets ugly.

TRUTH 1: ALCOHOL IS A CLASS 1 CARCINOGEN - SAME AS ASBESTOS AND PLUTONIUM

The World Health Organisation put alcohol in Group 1. That means "definitely causes cancer in humans." Not might. Not probably. Definitely.

You know what else is Group 1? Asbestos. Plutonium. Tobacco. Processed meat. Formaldehyde.

But you can't buy asbestos at Tesco for £6. You can't get plutonium on special offer at Sainsbury's. They're regulated, banned, and controlled because they cause cancer.

Alcohol? In every supermarket. Every corner shop. Every petrol station. Next to the crisps.

It causes seven types of cancer: mouth, throat, oesophagus, liver, breast, bowel, and larynx. That's not disputed. That's an established medical fact.

But the industry doesn't want cancer warnings on bottles because it might affect sales. And the government doesn't want to push too hard because they're making £12 billion a year in alcohol duty.

So they let you buy carcinogens with your weekly shop and pretend it's fine because of tradition, culture, and profit margins.

TRUTH 2: THERE IS NO SAFE LEVEL OF ALCOHOL CONSUMPTION

None. Zero. Not a glass with dinner. Not a pint after work. Not champagne at weddings.

The WHO published this in 2023. The Canadian government updated their guidelines: no amount of alcohol is safe.

But you won't see that on billboards. You won't see it in advertising. You definitely won't hear it from your GP unless you specifically ask.

Why? Because if people genuinely understood that ANY amount is harmful, they might stop drinking. And we can't have that. Think of the economy.

"Moderation" is a marketing term. It's not a health recommendation. It's the alcohol industry's way of keeping you buying while pretending to be responsible.

There is no safe dose of poison. You're just choosing how much poison you're willing to accept.

TRUTH 3: ALCOHOL IS MORE DANGEROUS THAN HEROIN AND CRACK COCAINE

In 2010, Professor David Nutt published research ranking drugs by harm. Alcohol came out on top. More harmful than heroin, crack, meth, and cocaine.

Not just harm to the user. Total harm—including harm to others, harm to society, harm to families, economic cost, and healthcare burden.

Alcohol wins. It's the most dangerous drug we have. And it's legal, available everywhere, and actively promoted.

Heroin? Illegal. Prison time. Addiction services. Social stigma.

Alcohol? Sponsored sports events. TV advertising. "Drink responsibly" as if that makes it fine.

Professor Nutt lost his government advisory position for publishing this research. Because truth is less important than protecting an industry worth trillions.

TRUTH 4: ALCOHOL IS A NEUROTOXIN THAT KILLS BRAIN CELLS

Every time you drink, you're poisoning your nervous system. That's not metaphorical. That's literal biochemistry.

Alcohol crosses the blood-brain barrier. It damages neurons. It kills brain cells. It impairs cognitive function. It shrinks your brain over time.

"But I feel fine!" Yeah, because brain damage is gradual. You don't wake up after one night of drinking and forget your name. You slowly lose cognitive capacity over the years, so gradually you don't notice.

Until you're 50 and can't remember words. Can't focus. Can't think as clearly as you used to. And you put it down to ageing.

It's not ageing. It's decades of voluntary exposure to neurotoxins.

The alcohol industry knows this. They just don't put "BRAIN DAMAGE IN A BOTTLE" on the label because, shockingly, that doesn't sell.

TRUTH 5: MODERATE DRINKING IS NOT GOOD FOR YOUR HEART

Remember that? Red wine is good for your heart? The French Paradox? Resveratrol and antioxidants?

All bollocks. Industry-funded research. Cherry-picked data. Correlation mistaken for causation.

Independent research shows that alcohol increases your risk of cardiovascular disease. Even moderate drinking raises blood pressure, increases the risk of atrial fibrillation, and contributes to heart disease.

The "heart healthy" myth was created and promoted by alcohol companies. And it worked. Millions of people still think a glass of wine a day is medicinal.

It's not. It's poison. There's nothing in wine that you can't get from actual grapes without the ethanol.

But "eat a grape" doesn't sell bottles. "Heart healthy wine" does.

The industry made billions on this lie. And people are still drinking for their health. Unbelievable.

TRUTH 6: ALCOHOL IS MORE ADDICTIVE THAN YOU THINK

About 10-15% of people who drink will develop alcohol use disorder. That's not a small number. That's millions of people.

But it's presented as a personal failing. "Alcoholics" have a problem. Everyone else is fine. Drinking normally. In control.

Except alcohol is physically addictive. It changes your brain chemistry. It creates dependency. And the line between "social drinker" and "problem drinker" is thinner than anyone wants to admit.

The industry loves the "alcoholic" label. It puts all the blame on the individual. It's not the product. It's not the marketing. It's not the availability. It's YOU. You're the problem. The alcohol is fine.

Except it's not. It's an addictive substance. That's what it does. That's its nature.

But if we acknowledged that alcohol is inherently addictive, we'd have to question why we're allowing an addictive drug to be sold everywhere with minimal restriction.

Can't have that conversation. Bad for business.

TRUTH 7: THE GOVERNMENT MAKES MORE MONEY FROM ALCOHOL THAN IT SPENDS ON ALCOHOL HARM

UK government takes in about £12 billion a year in alcohol duty and VAT.

The cost of alcohol harm to the NHS, police, courts, social services, lost productivity? Around £27 billion a year.

So the government makes money, but society pays the real cost.

And the government knows this. But they can't ban it or heavily restrict it because:

a) Political suicide—people would riot

b) They'd lose £12 billion in easy revenue

c) The alcohol lobby is incredibly powerful

So they do token gestures. Minimum pricing. "Drink aware" campaigns funded by the industry itself. Guidelines nobody follows.

Meanwhile, 3 million people die globally every year from alcohol. But tax revenue is more important than public health.

TRUTH 8: ALCOHOL CAUSES VIOLENCE, CRIME, AND SOCIAL HARM ON A MASSIVE SCALE

39% of violent crime involves alcohol. Domestic abuse, assault, murder—alcohol is a factor in nearly half.

But we don't talk about it like that. We talk about "drunk and disorderly." We talk about "lads on a night out." We minimise it. Normalise it.

If any illegal drug caused this level of violence and social harm, there'd be a war on it. Armed police. International task forces. Billions spent eradicating it.

Alcohol causes the same harm? "Well, people need to drink responsibly. It's not the alcohol's fault."

Yes it is. Alcohol reduces inhibitions and increases aggression. That's pharmacology. That's what it does.

But we can't acknowledge that because then we'd have to do something about it. And doing something would affect profits.

So we accept thousands of violent crimes every year as the price of keeping booze legal and available.

TRUTH 9: THE ALCOHOL INDUSTRY ACTIVELY TARGETS YOUNG PEOPLE AND VULNERABLE GROUPS

Despite saying they don't. Despite "responsible marketing" codes. Despite industry self-regulation.

They sponsor sports that kids watch. They use social media influencers. They create sweet, candy-flavoured drinks that appeal to young people. They advertise near schools and universities.

Why? Because they need to recruit new drinkers. Because older drinkers either quit, cut back, or die.

The industry needs young people to start drinking early and drink often. That's their customer pipeline.

And they do it while claiming they're against underage drinking. While funding "drink aware" campaigns. While pretending they care.

They don't. They care about profit. And young drinkers are profitable for decades.

TRUTH 10: YOU'RE BEING MANIPULATED BY THE MOST SUCCESSFUL MARKETING IN HUMAN HISTORY

The alcohol industry has convinced entire societies that their product—a toxic, addictive, carcinogenic poison—is essential for:

Celebration. Commiseration. Socialising. Relaxing. Success. Sophistication. Confidence. Fun. Romance. Culture. Tradition.

They've made it so embedded in every aspect of life that NOT drinking is seen as weird. As extreme. As something that requires explanation and justification.

Think about that. You have to explain why you DON'T want to consume poison.

That's the power of marketing. That's generations of propaganda so effective that the absence of their product is now abnormal.

They've normalised poison. They've made it sophisticated. They've made it essential. They've made it so you defend their right to sell it to you even after knowing what it does.

That's genius. Evil genius. But genius nonetheless.

THE BOTTOM LINE

Alcohol is a toxic, addictive, carcinogenic neurotoxin that causes cancer, brain damage, violence, and massive social harm.

It's more dangerous than illegal drugs. It has no safe consumption level. It's not good for your heart or any other part of you. It's designed to be addictive and is marketed to keep you drinking.

The industry knows all this. The government knows all this. They just don't want YOU to know all this. Or think about it too hard.

Because if you did? If everyone did? The whole £1.5 trillion house of cards collapses.

So they keep it vague. They keep it about "personal responsibility." They keep the truth buried under marketing, tradition, and cultural normalisation.

And people keep drinking. Keep getting sick. Keep dying. Keep defending the substance that's killing them.

After 45 years of drinking and over a year sober, I finally see it clearly:

Alcohol is the most successful con in human history. They convinced us to pay them to poison us. And we did it happily. Repeatedly. For our entire adult lives.

Then when it damaged us, we blamed ourselves. Not the poison. Not the industry. Ourselves.

That's the real genius. They sold us poison, we developed problems from the poison, and we took the blame.

Brilliant when you think about it.

Veteran. 45 years drinking. Over a year sober. Finally seeing the con for what it is.

The truth is ugly. Uncomfortable. Inconvenient.

But it's still the truth.

And no amount of marketing, lobbying, or tax revenue changes it.

Alcohol is poison. Always has been. Always will be.

Everything else is just expensive packaging and lies.

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In my experience, all drinkers defend their right to drink and they bury their head in the sand to avoid those ugly truths and not only make fun of non-drinkers, but exclude them from social situations.

Of my 65yrs on earth, I have been a non-drinker for 35 of them. I was a bingeing social drinker for the other 30, and while I had some fun, I also said and did some stupid things that affected me, my friends and my family in a negative way.

I have regrets and if I had my time over, alcohol would play a much smaller role.

Anyway … my day was full of rain, shopping, cooking, Harley play, gardening and Olympic Games viewing.

Now I need to sleep because I have meditation early tomorrow.



Chinese year of the Horse!

Tuesday … I missed meditation due to illness … nothing major, but enough to weaken my resolve. 

I still played with Harley, caught up on two episodes of I’m a Celebrity, napped and cooked a quick stir fry  for dinner.

Nite all.