Nice to see you!

Three major events occurred for me last year (2010), all in the space of about 2 weeks. I turned 50. The following day I got married. Two weeks later, my oldest daughter became pregnant with her first child and my first grandchild.

Most middle-aged people will tell you that in their minds, they still feel 20 something. It's the same for me.

Wasn't it only yesterday that I was planning a night out with guys from the surf club? That gorgeous new perm. Flaired, cuffed denims and the red t-shirt with the off-the-shoulder frill. Corked platform wedgies. **sigh**

Suddenly I'm looking in the mirror and wondering how 30 years can flash by so damned quickly!

So here I am in cyberspace, sharing my genuine shock and horror with anyone who'll listen and maybe I'll even meet some other over 50s who find themselves in the same predicament!

Welcome to my dilemna!!

Tuesday, October 13, 2020

Clarification

I just want to clarify that even though I am always on about being tired and busy and constantly needing to put my feet up, I am still LOVING “Roz’s Happy Place”!

Today was a crazy busy day! 

I did get to spend about 30 minutes with my girls before those first pesky customers arrived!

From 9.30am til 11.30am I did not stop! Holiday makers galore! All having a ball together and shopped til they almost dropped - a couple declaring that they would return later in the week.

Lunch was a necessity, to give me the energy to finish the day.

Last weekend, I found a family owned and run company from Queensland that sells Aust tuna in glass jars. Here is the link to their website ... Little Tuna

I received the three jars yesterday (tuna in olive oil, tuna in spring water, tuna in chilli) and took the Tuna in olive oil with me to work today for lunch. I mashed an avocado with lemon juice, coconut yoghurt, salt, pepper and chopped shallots, then stirred through some of the tuna.

Of course, I taste tested the tuna before doing that and it was DIVINE! Absolutely nothing like the tinned tuna you get from (mostly) Asia, which in comparison, tastes like ... um ... wet paper?

This one is meaty and full bodied and flavoursome.

Needless to say, I thoroughly enjoyed my lunch!

Between customers in the afternoon, I printed out all the copies of this week’s journaling lesson for the girls and set the table with the weekly lollies and glasses of water.

The class was amazing because one of the girls had received her professionally bound book of her family ancestry in the mail yesterday. We’ve been talking about it and waiting for her to receive it for two weeks, so it was a big deal to see it, touch it and read some of the amazing stories in it. 

We were inspired to follow up on our own ancestry and to create an amazing life journal.

We finished right on 3.30pm and AH and I cleared the room and set up for meditation in the morning.

There was no protein at home for dinner so we stopped at the butcher and selected some lamb rump steaks for AH to cook on the barbecue while I prepared a salad. Watermelon for dessert.

Right now, I’m watching Junior Masterchef and wishing some of those kids could be employed by us to cook in our kitchen once or twice a week! I’m drooling.


Now it’s time for me to head to bed.

Nite all.

Monday, October 12, 2020

Canned Date

One of my favourite quotes is “Being okay if it happens and being okay if it doesn’t, is a very powerful place to be”

So the fact that I had to postpone my big plans for today was really no big deal. It will happen in good time.

I spent the entire day in bed creating my next two journaling lessons. Six hours of work - which I thoroughly enjoyed, but I was surprised that it took so long. 

Then I did some calculations and discovered that to create each lesson, it has taken, on average, three hours per lesson. That means I’ve invested 21 hours so far (7 weeks) and there will be at least another 5 weeks.

That’s actually pretty good going.

Adoring Husband waited on me by providing my lemon water, broth and coffee. He made me a lovely salad for lunch and I made myself a green juice for dinner.

Now I have to go clear all of my paraphernalia from the bed so that we can sleep!

I regret not having a dip in the pool today, but it was 4pm before I knew it and I only realised how late it was because a rep phoned me.

Time flies when you’re having fun.


Nite all.

Sunday, October 11, 2020

I’m lazing by the pool as I write this.

It’s a glorious day and while Adoring Husband was participating in some SES training, I chose to rise a little earlier than usual, make myself some breakfast of bacon, avocado, cherry tomatoes and coleslaw. 

I completed some chores around the house before rewarding myself with a swim, a float, some aqua-aerobics, water dancing and then put my feet up while lazing in the swinging egg chair.

While lazing, I found this on Facebook today and simply had to share. I’m sure it will resonate with you as it does me!

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“I asked a friend who has crossed 70 & is heading towards 80 what sort of changes he is feeling in himself?  He sent me the following:

1  After loving my parents, my siblings, my spouse, my children and my friends, I have now started loving myself.

2  I have realized that I am not “Atlas”. The world does not rest on my shoulders.

3  I have stopped bargaining with vegetable & fruit vendors. A few pennies more is not going to break me, but it might help the poor fellow save for his daughter’s school fees.

4  I leave my waitress a big tip. The extra money might bring a smile to her face. She is toiling much harder for a living than I am.

5  I stopped telling the elderly that they've already narrated that story many times. The story makes them walk down memory lane & relive their past.

6  I have learned not to correct people even when I know they are wrong. The onus of making everyone perfect is not on me. Peace is more precious than perfection.

7  I give compliments freely & generously. Compliments are a mood enhancer not only for the recipient, but also for me.  And a small tip for the recipient of a compliment, never, NEVER turn it down, just say "Thank You.”

8  I have learned not to bother about a crease or a spot on my shirt. Personality speaks louder than appearances.

9  I walk away from people who don't value me. They might not know my worth, but I do.

10  I remain cool when someone plays dirty to outrun me in the rat race. I am not a rat & neither am I in any race.

11  I am learning not to be embarrassed by my emotions. It’s my emotions that make me human.

12  I have learned that it's better to drop the ego than to break a relationship. My ego will keep me aloof, whereas with relationships, I will never be alone.

13  I have learned to live each day as if it's the last. After all, it might be the last.

14  I am doing what makes me happy. I am responsible for my happiness, and I owe it to myself. Happiness is a choice. You can be happy at any time, just choose to be!

I decided to share this for all my friends. Why do we have to wait to be 60 or 70 or 80, why can't we practice this at any stage and age?

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I’m trying to decide now whether to clean the bathroom or continue lazing by the pool. Perhaps I can reward myself after cleaning, with another dip and laze!

Later - I didn’t clean the bathroom and AH arrived home from training, so I joined him in the lounge room and watched a Netflix movie instead.

We began watching a Netflix series called “Virgin River” and I cooked a corned silverside and cabbage for dinner.

I believe I’ll be going to bed to watch Junior Masterchef - not a show we usually watch but the lead up over the last couple of months has really drawn us in so we’ve watched the first little bit and we’re hooked!

I have a day planned for tomorrow which I’m really looking forward to, so it’s time for me to sleep soon.




Nite all.

Saturday, October 10, 2020

A Little Odd

It was an odd kind of sales day because everyone came in early - before 10am and I had only two customers for the remainder of the day!

Sales were good though.

I had a visit from Aggie, which was a pleasant way to break up the morning.

Otherwise, I priced the stock that the rep left with me yesterday and found new ways to display them.

I filed away some invoices, made a couple of new files for new suppliers, paid a couple of invoices and calculated my budget for the next month.

Adoring Husband arrived on cue to help close the shop and we were home by 1:30pm.

After my usual greeting with psychotic dog Colli, I made myself a GF cone with vegan ice cream and I put my feet up to watch a couple of movies on Netflix. There was no physical or mental energy left for anything else.

We had a light dinner and watched the Bunnies defeat the Eels in the other preliminary NRL final.

Now I’m in bed binge watching Friends on WINPeach.

But I’m tired and AH is snoring loudly beside me (because he forgets to use the salt pipe) and I’m going to listen to an audible book until I fall asleep.


Nite all.

Friday, October 9, 2020

Favoring The Brave

I spent a fortune.

I’m hoping that makes me brave.

I’m also hoping that the Universe will favour me and I’ll make a fortune from the fortune I spent!

ie “fortune favors the brave”

Haha!

My supplier arrived at about 10am and she was with me for about two hours.

I topped up on my ‘Intrinsic’ and ‘Buckley & Phillips’ stock, both of whom have lovely new products that I could not resist.

She also introduced me to a new brand of garden and outdoor products. I’m proud of the self control that I displayed here, because these products are excellent quality (which you certainly pay for), and I could have spent ‘quite a few’ thousand dollars!

I got a few lovely ‘end of business’ dress jewellery pieces and a new range of large cards - you know, the size that 20 or 30 people can easily sign.

This all means that between now and the end of November, I have a LOT of stock arriving.

  • Sterling silver jewellery.
  • A good range of beautiful Intrinsic Products.
  • Scented candles, massage oil, diffusers and ‘immunity’ hand sanitisers and room sprays.
  • Planters, outdoor wall art and weather vanes.
  • A HUGE range of hats from the cancer council and another reputable brand.
  • Dress jewellery - earrings, bracelets and necklaces.
  • Silicone “chewellery” which is specifically for young children and mothers with bubs that like to chew things!
  • Cards.
  • More Sassy Duck bags.
  • Sterling silver dress rings.
That should cover Christmas I reckon!

Today was a good day of sales - I was interrupted often while ordering the new stock, so the rep’s visit took a lot longer than usual.

I had a regular customer ask me to select some gifts for a special birthday, which was easy because I know the lady who’s special birthday it is and she is very stylish and trendy for her age.

Before we came home this afternoon, I had to do some banking and deliver the birthday parcel so it was almost 3pm by the time we got home. 

I got changed and went for a quick dip in the pool.

AH cooked the usual Friday night fare for dinner, which was lovely.

We are watching the Canberra Raiders defeat Sydney Roosters in a preliminary final of the NRL right now. 

I can just now hear my pillow whispering my name so it will be bed for me shortly.



Nite all.

Thursday, October 8, 2020

Yawning Anyway

I was busy with potential customers through the shop most of the day, but none of them wanted to spend money! 

Needless to say, it was a low sales day.

I had a visit from The Motivator and The Brains Trust.

I spoke over the phone with a new supplier and ordered some good quality sterling silver jewellery. Some earrings, pendants and bracelets with pearls, some semi precious gems like turquoise, citrine, blue topaz, larimar, peridot and amber and some just plain silver.

I tidied up different sections of my office area, got rid of old paperwork and catalogues and prepared for my appointment with a supplier on Friday.

I also culled some of my wardrobe this morning and took the items into the shop to sell on the pre-loved rack.

A dip in the pool was almost on the cards this afternoon but I felt too lazy to do anything except park my butt on the couch.

Adoring Husband had SES training this evening so I prepared an early dinner of crispy skinned chicken with salad of baby spinach, cherry tomatoes, cucumber, avocado and home made coleslaw.

Now it’s sleep time for me.

Nite all.

Wednesday, October 7, 2020

What I wished For

Be careful what you wish for!

I began the day by moaning that I needed things to quieten down because I was exhausted from the school holidays and Tuesday had been even bigger than the previous two weeks.

Not a solitary soul came through the doors after 11am.

It was a very busy morning with lots of people in the shop, but just a few small sales.

Six ladies from meditation stayed for coffee and all left at 11am

I did some more printing and laminating and added more quotes to the training room walls.

I sat down at my desk and uttered a ‘thankyou’ to the Universe for giving me this quiet day to gather my wits, take some deep breaths and enjoy the peaceful ambience of my surroundings.

I needed that.

While Adoring Husband was late picking up the weekly FROG box, I pulled the flags, signs and chairs to close the shop.

It was another easy dinner with tacos tonight.

At 7.30pm I played the BBC2 radio nightly quiz show and AH and I watched the second half of The Bachelorette in bed.

Despite my quiet day, I’m still feeling quite weary, so I’ve dabbed “sleep soundly” essential oil blend on my pulse points and I’m ready for an early night.

The weather is warming up and I’m certain that there will be swimming in the pool for the next three afternoons.

Nite all.


Tuesday, October 6, 2020

The Carnival is Not Over

Queensland school holidays may be over but OTHER people’s holidays are still happening.

Once again those pesky customers kept me from enjoying coffee with my girls this morning and by this afternoon, I was this 👌 close to breaking records!

I had one quiet hour in the middle of the day where I laminated a stack of pages with quotes on them to stick on the walls of the training room. I used blu tack to stick them in random positions on all four walls.

I photocopied pages for journaling and prepared for the class.

The cleaner arrived on time and began dusting as required.

My journaling girls arrived right on time and the 90 minutes flew by so fast, we went ten minutes over time.

Adoring Husband was there to fold up the tables and help me set up the room for meditation.

I was so happy to get home, put my feet up and shut my brain down.

We had an easy dinner of barbecued lamb shops with mushrooms and home made salsa.

It’s almost 10.30pm and I need to be up early for meditation so it’s sleep time for me. This early in the week, I’m not quite “quanked” yet.

Nite all.

Monday, October 5, 2020

Believe it!

Can you believe ... that I woke up at 9.30 this morning?!

Admittedly, I didn’t go to sleep until 1am but that’s still 8.5 hours of sound sleep!

Adoring Husband attempted to wake me by putting some freshly cooked bacon on my bedside table - to no avail.

Even with all of that sleep, I was not enthusiastic about getting out of bed and it was around 1pm when I made the executive decision to put on some swimmers and go for a dip in the pool, then I enjoyed a long bask in the sunshine, a laze in the egg chair followed by a warm shower.

AH and I drove to the shop to clear the training room ready for Tuesday.

It took us an hour to find a place for everything that was not yet dry from the art class, fold up the plastic sheets, set up the tables for morning tea and for the journaling class, vacuum the floors and clear the kitchen of all the now dry paint cups, stirring sticks, paint brushes, wine glasses etc.

I still forgot to take photos!

From there we returned home and I put some more touches on my commissioned art piece - until the light got too low In the family room.

For dinner, I made a frittata with last night’s leftover roast vegetables and AH cooked our pork loin chops on the barbecue.

Now, believe it or not, it’s 9.45pm and I’m feeling a little sleepy!

Let’s see if things are a little quieter in town tomorrow now that school holidays are over. The caravan park still looked full when we drove past this afternoon.



Nite all.

Sunday, October 4, 2020

Sunday in Bed

Stefan Liebermann Photography - “Uluru”

You can find his photography page on Facebook and he has beautiful nature photographs from all around the world. He is very good.

I have enjoyed my entire day in bed.

Adoring Husband even did a baked dinner - a whole chicken and a big tray of mixed vegetables. Potato, sweet potato, pumpkin, carrot, capsicum, cherry tomatoes and garlic. I got out of bed to make the gravy and some broccoli then we sat at the table together to eat, after which, I returned to bed.

During the day I finished my newsletter and emailed it to everyone on my list.

I began to put together a ‘vision board’ workshop, the first of which I hope to hold in a few weeks time. Perhaps the third week of October or the first week of November.

I’m soon going to run out of days to hold workshops and classes!

After such a mentally active day, it’s time for me to sleep because I’m hoping to be artistically creative tomorrow before heading to the shop to clear the training room ready for morning coffee with the girls and the journaling class on Tuesday!

It’s never ending!



Nite all.

Saturday, October 3, 2020

Jelly Brain

I’ve been sitting here for 30 minutes wondering what to post here tonight.

It’s been a big day and my brain is shutting down.

While I was trying to finish setting up the room for art, those pesky customers kept walking through the door. I got everything done without stress and sales were very good, but today has topped off a week that has really worn me out!

School holidays have been a blinder and I have crammed too much into the last five days AND I am too old for this $#@%!

The art class was fantastic.

We played with our art from last week and embellished it a little. 

We created two more pieces of art.

We created some jewellery.

We drank wine and ate crackers n dip.

We cleaned up our messes.

I was so tired that I forgot to take photos!

I packed up and came home.

I’ve been watching The Good Girls all afternoon and evening.





Now I’m off to bed and I can’t wait to spend at least half of Sunday there.

Nite all.

Friday, October 2, 2020

Rest Period

Today was a little quieter than the rest of the week.

Still good sales, but less customers.

I finished steaming, pricing and displaying all of the clothes.

I unpacked, checked, priced and displayed the other box of stock.

I partially set up the training room for the art workshop.

I tidied my desk.

I actually made some lunch and sat down to eat it.

Adoring Husband drove into The Bay for some pool supplies and while he was there, ran some errands for me, picking up some Floetrol for art and some big and small paper bags with handles from HBW.

It was a good productive day for me and late this afternoon I required a nap!

I got a couple of loads of washing done and I’m grateful for AH’s Friday night cooking.

We’ve watched a good game of footy tonight between Roosters and Panthers. Panthers won by a single point.



Now I need some sleep ready for a big day tomorrow.

Nite all.

Thursday, October 1, 2020

Feeling Grateful

As grateful as I am for these busy school holidays and the accompanying big sales that go with them, I must say that I’m looking forward to some quieter time to sit in silence in the shop to listen to the voices in my head.

🥴

We opened the shop early this morning so I spent some time cleaning the loo, tidying the kitchen, setting up a jug of water with cups on the table in preparation for the aromatherapy workshop and setting up the steamer with all the new clothes so that I could finish pricing and displaying them.

It was so busy, it literally took me all day to do the clothes ... and then I discovered two more tops in the bottom of the box just before we left.

Ugh.

It’s always so exciting to open a box of new clothes, but after a couple of hours steaming, the excitement begins to wane and the task seems never ending!

I still have an unopened box of stock in the change room that I hope to unpack tomorrow.

The first two hours of today had 8 people in the training room for an aromatherapy jewellery making workshop. There was lots of happy chatter floating out of the room but I didn’t get to participate because of all those pesky school holiday customers! Haha.


I paid my bills this afternoon and finished my newsletter which I plan on proof reading and sending out to my email list in the morning.

The training room needs to be set up tomorrow for Saturday’s art workshop. That shouldn’t take too long.

What a week.

Sunday is dangling before me like a carrot!


Sleep is calling my name.

Nite all.

Wednesday, September 30, 2020

Wash Rinse Repeat

The exact same two hours were crazy busy again today and sales were within $20 of yesterday’s sales.

Meditation for the first hour - there is nothing new to say about how fantastic the first hour of Wednesday is in the shop.

A small group remained for coffee afterwards and I got to spend some quality time with The Gypsy before she left.

One customer took 90 minutes of my time - a lonely unhappy lady hungry for friendly conversation.

Two deliveries, one of clothing and one which I haven’t even opened yet, arrived during the day.

I steamed approximately one third of the clothes and got them onto the racks, which was lucky because I sold quite a few pieces this afternoon already.

I had a nice visit from The Motivator but we didn’t get much time alone together because another sad and lonely customer came in and intruded on our time.

Adoring Husband and I set up the room ready for tomorrow’s workshop in aromatherapy.

It was almost 3pm by the time we locked the door and headed home and I confess that I was feeling very worn out and in need of some restful, quiet, alone time.

Some days are filled with people who attempt to suck the life out of me - it’s up to me to find a way to counteract that otherwise I’m going to be in a lot of trouble! 😳

I must say that I’m sleeping very soundly at night!

We ate dinner at 4.40pm - pork sausages with home made tomato relish (thanks to The Motivator!) and a lovely fresh green salad.

I believe that our increasingly early dinners and our equally increasingly early bed times are confirming beyond all reasonable doubt that we are officially ... old!

It’s almost 7.30pm and I’m about to play Quiz time on BBC2 radio and then head off to bed.

Yup!

Old!






Nite all.


Tuesday, September 29, 2020

2 Hot Hours

I wore my new shoes today.

I was literally on my feet running, walking and standing for 5 hours and my feet felt like they were in slippers at the end of the day. 

I love my new shoes!!

Morning tea with the girls was animated and enjoyable and before they departed, they created a shopping frenzy that lasted for about thirty minutes. It was the beginning of an amazing sales day for me.

It was exhausting because all of the sales happened between 10am - 11am and 12.30pm - 1.30pm.

In between those times I priced and displayed a big box of Ivys bags and cleaned up the mess that doing that job created.

I set up the tables for the journaling class.

After the journaling class, Adoring Husband helped put those tables away to clear the room for meditation in the morning.

Unfortunately he also had some bad news to tell me.

One of our friends, who, in this blog, I call Grumpy Pants, passed away suddenly and unexpectedly this morning. You know his wife as our friend The Blonde Bombshell.

It was utterly shocking and completely unbelievable and I am still trying to process this dreadful news.

Even though I called him Grumpy Pants, he always had a positive mindset - especially considering the health setbacks that they have endured over the last couple of years after their big car accident - he was always ready for a big hug and always had something cheeky to say with a smile on his face and a twinkle in his eye.

We are all in shock, but we will all be here to help support Bombshell through this terrible time.

Grumpy Pants, we will miss your cheeky presence in our group and you have reminded us how fragile life can be, so we will hug our husbands a little tighter tonight.

Nite all.

Monday, September 28, 2020

2 year old tells us about her dinosaurs.


My adorable little Chicklet, seven years ago, naming her dinosaur collection. 

Bubbles posted this old video on Facebook today. It brought a tear to my eye and the warmest, fuzziest feeling in my heart. She will soon be ten and is currently reading Ahn Do’s series of books.

I miss her so much.

On a brighter note, I enjoyed some quality time with my girls today.

We drove to Childers and shopped for shoes, bags and clothes in between a delicious morning tea of latte with GF lemon meringue tart and lunch of warm chicken salad with sweet mustard dressing.

There was lots of snorting laughter, lots of admiring of each other’s purchase choices, lots of walking, lots of news to share, shocking conversation 😳, a mini walkout (with tongue in cheek) and I even found some  art supplies for the next art class!

We were gone for five hours and as it does when you’re having fun, time flew!

These are a couple of my purchases ...



Those big hippy pants are sooooooo comfortable and soooooo cool to wear. I’m going to get myself some more of them!

Now it’s time for me to sleep in preparation for a big week ahead.

Thanks girls for a great day. I love all of you and I’m so grateful to have you in my world. Let’s do it again soon.



Nite all.


Sunday, September 27, 2020

A Short Day

I cant believe how quickly this Sunday has passed!

I bet you can’t guess what I did.

Yep.

I stayed in bed until 4pm.

I created the next two journaling classes and printed the questions/lessons out ready to photocopy when I get to work on Tuesday.

That took me a good five hours. Five enjoyable hours because I love opening my mind and creating something new from scratch. It’s especially enjoyable when the feedback is is so positive.

My Monday is going to be pretty full (and fun!) but I still have to create my monthly newsletter and do some more on my commissioned art piece before 30th September.

Tuesday is coffee with the girls and the journaling class.

Wednesday is meditation and coffee with other girls.

Thursday is aromatherapy bracelet making and beginning the setup for the art workshop.

Friday is finishing the art set up in the training room.

Somewhere during the week there will also be three deliveries of stock arriving.

Saturday will be the art workshop.

I’m already exhausted just thinking about this week!




I’d best get another early night because I need to be full of nutrition and well rested!

Nite all.