Nice to see you!

Three major events occurred for me last year (2010), all in the space of about 2 weeks. I turned 50. The following day I got married. Two weeks later, my oldest daughter became pregnant with her first child and my first grandchild.

Most middle-aged people will tell you that in their minds, they still feel 20 something. It's the same for me.

Wasn't it only yesterday that I was planning a night out with guys from the surf club? That gorgeous new perm. Flaired, cuffed denims and the red t-shirt with the off-the-shoulder frill. Corked platform wedgies. **sigh**

Suddenly I'm looking in the mirror and wondering how 30 years can flash by so damned quickly!

So here I am in cyberspace, sharing my genuine shock and horror with anyone who'll listen and maybe I'll even meet some other over 50s who find themselves in the same predicament!

Welcome to my dilemna!!

Wednesday, November 4, 2020

At Last!!!

My deliveries finally arrived today!

Sassy Duck bags, Glass on the Grass and a big shipment of hats from the Cancer Council.

I rode my trike again this morning and left home at 7.40am to arrive at 7.48am because I had a few things to do before meditation.

The class was great and a few ladies stayed behind afterwards for coffee. I sat with them a while.

I seemed to get a lot of jobs started today but very few finished.

I unpacked the hats.

I cleared off the white table behind the counter to accommodate my iMac which I will only use occasionally - but I haven't used it for almost 3 years so I need to remember the password to log in!

I began to clear out the treatment room in preparation for The Motivator to set it up for her appointments.

Because I needed a space to store some stuff from the treatment room, I began to clear some old boxes and ‘stuff’ from the end storage cupboard. 

So tomorrow, I still need to finish clearing both the treatment room and the cupboard. I need to price and display two boxes of stock. I hope the final piece of my hat stand will arrive so that I can display the new shipment of hats (of which there are many!)

I need to make a space for this giant hat stand!

We had to wait at the shop until the deliveries arrived, which was just after 2.30pm so Adoring Husband helped me check off the hat invoice while we waited.

I rode home and decided to take some quiet “me” time in the pool. The water was perfect so put on some 60s music, swam a few laps, floated and did some stretches, then sat under the Bali hut for half an hour.

It was the perfect way to end my work day.

AH cooked our lamb on the barbecue and I threw together a salad.

We settled in for State of Origin but I realised I had to find my Queensland charm necklace because I promised my little sis that I’d wear it.

I spent a long time searching through my extensive jewellery collection to no avail but at least I unpacked a lot of jewellery that I haven’t seen for a year, so I have so much more to choose from now!

NSW was winning 10 nil at half time in the State of Origin so I decided that QLD needed my undivided attention for the second half and it worked!! Winner winner chicken dinner to QLD!!



Time now to sleep. It’s been a full productive day and I need to rest this old body.

Nite all.

Tuesday, November 3, 2020

Dressy Affair

I wore a dress!

Today, I hosted an intimate Melbourne Cup gathering of friends and acquaintances at Roz’s Happy Place.

It was a really nice day.








There were 8 of us including Adoring Husband and I.

Because there is no aerial or antenna on our building, Adoring Husband had to put in quite an effort to get our big screen TV working.

He was my champion for the day and I don’t know what I would have done (apart from hand out a handful of iPads so that we could watch the race on small screens!) without his determination to make my day successful.

My guests all brought yummy nibbles for the table and I provided a variety of alcoholic beverages from a Sauvignon Blanc to Pink Moscato to Riccadonna to Champagne to Chardonnay and also a non alcoholic punch and tea/coffee.

Sunflowers on the tables 🌻🌻🌻

Sweeps for me to lose money on.

The last of my guests didn’t leave until well after 4pm. 

AH and I had to clear the room and set it up for meditation tomorrow morning, so it was after 5pm by the time we got home. We unpacked the car and brought the big screen telly inside.

Of course it was then time to prepare dinner so I cooked a couple of duck breasts and served them with salad.

We are both exhausted and I have to be at the shop at 7am for meditation so I need to sleep right now.

Nite all.

Monday, November 2, 2020

Annoyed

I had MUCH to do today.

The training room had to be cleared of the art, art gear and the tables and the floor vacuumed so that I could set up for Melbourne Cup tomorrow.

We had to be at the shop at 10.30am and 12.30pm for deliveries that, once again, did not appear. Three  weeks in a row now and I’ve contacted the original couriers twice and they’ve guaranteed me the parcels were on the truck!

I’m annoyed.

I’m going to get the courier’s addresses and send Adoring Husband to pick up the parcels. This is ridiculous and I’ve never had a problem with deliveries before, but I have a customer urgently waiting on one of these packages.

So we were at the shop for three hours for no apparent reason.

I conceded defeat at 12.50pm and we hustled into The Bay with a list a mile long of things to do.

Three hours later, after visiting Nana’s Pantry, Dan Murphy’s, three different art supply shops, Bunnings, Coles, Woollies, Harvey Norman’s and Su Jus cafe bar, we hustled back home.

We unpacked the car, fed the dog and repacked the car with a punch bowl, Riccadonna, stemless wine glasses, table cloths, esky, TV, flowers and vases and drove to the shop to finish setting up for MC.

We are still not ready and left the shop at 6.20pm.

There is still just a little to do tomorrow morning and I know what I’m wearing so it should be a smooth start to the day.

I think we have both gone above and beyond today and we are well and truly worn out.


Sleep time for me.

Nite all.

Sunday, November 1, 2020

Body and Brain

I exercised both my body and my brain today.

My morning was spent in bed creating my monthly newsletter. It took about three hours.

Adoring Husband was hungry so I made two bacon and egg rolls for his lunch. For myself I did bacon, banana and maple syrup - yummy!

We watched a couple of episodes of a netflix series (the name of which I forget right at this moment but I’ve mentioned it here before) until I decided to make use of the pool.

The water was absolutely perfect so I turned on some relaxing music and I swam, stretched, exercised and floated for about an hour, wrapped myself in a towel and sat under the Bali hut for another 30 minutes. The weather was glorious and by the time I came inside, I was feeling pretty chilled.

For AH, I prepared chicken, mushroom and vegetables for dinner. I ate 2 mangos and they were delicious!

After dinner we watched the new “Chasers” show which I quite enjoyed.

This evening, I began designing my vision board workshop, the first of which will be held on 12th November. I’m really looking forward to it because it’ll be more fun doing my 2021 vision board with friends. I have 4 names so far.

Right now I’m in bed listening to AH snore like a steam train. It’s so bad, I’ve recorded him! 


Anyway, until the snoring, I’ve had a most enjoyable Sunday. Monday is going to be full on busy so it’s sleep time for me.

Nite all

Saturday, October 31, 2020

Record Breaking

I broke my Saturday morning sales record!

Wahoo!

It was a very early start for me because I was worried that voting would bring so many people to the shop that I wouldn’t be able to finish setting up the work stations for the art workshop.

At 7.40am Adoring Husband and I were filling water tubs, arranging cups, mixing paint, blowing up balloons, shopping for afternoon tea, assigning canvases, lining buckets with plastic bags etc etc.

Between customers, I was able to tie up loose ends and the room was perfectly ready by the time the workshop began.

It was most definitely the quietest class I’ve ever led.

Everyone was so focused on what they were doing, it was completely silent for at least half of the time.

We sang Happy Birthday to the birthday girl who blew out the candle, drank the gin, ate the cake and at the end of the class she confessed to feeling exhausted from celebrating all week as well as dealing with a teething baby!

I’m not sure everyone was happy with their results this week. It was more difficult than they expected.







I didn’t get photos of them all.

But still, a good time was had by all!

At the end of the day, AH and I still had to vote so we drove straight to the hall and performed that duty before heading home.

By then, it was after 4pm and I was absolutely exhausted!

Dinner was a nosh up of finely chopped sweet potato, carrot and fresh beans with garlic, chicken, cherry tomatoes and spinach, salt and pepper. It was very tasty and hit the spot nicely.

We watched an old DVD “Some Kind of Wonderful” - probably the 30th time I’ve seen it and I loved it today as much as I loved it 33yrs ago.

Now it’s time to sleep.

Nite all.

Friday, October 30, 2020

Slow Start

I rode my trike to work today!

I arrived nice and early.

I opened the shop without Adoring Husband’s assistance.

As efficient as I was, it was a very slow start for business.

The final hour was, thankfully, the making of my day!

There were still plenty of people through the doors early, but they all spent tiny amounts that didn’t add up to a lot.

I didn’t get very far setting up for art because I was contacting people for their orders of my calendar and packing them up for mail outs interstate.

I changed a few displays around to make way for the two orders coming in. The two orders that I’ve had to follow up twice and which should have arrived today, but once again, didn’t. That’s annoying.

This afternoon I accompanied Adoring Husband to the Drs surgery. He couldn’t get in to see his usual Dr for 3 weeks and he needed to see someone urgently, so he reluctantly made an appointment with the local Dr and there’s no way I would allow him to step through that door without me as his body guard and protector!

It’s been four years since I visited a doctor and I can state with certainty that I don’t care how dire the situation is, I will not attend the local surgery for myself under any circumstances.

AH’s appointment was at 2.10pm. We arrived at 2.05pm. He was called in at 2.50pm.

While we were in the waiting area, a patient left the office with a prescription which he took to the pharmacy but returned 5 minutes later because it was the wrong prescription!

We were called in by the doctor and he asked what was wrong and punched all the info into the computer program (as they do), took AH’s blood pressure (which was perfect) and while the blood pressure machine was doing its thing, he called the receptionist in to ask questions about the previous patient’s computer record.

They spent a good 5 minutes of AH’s time problem solving.

When the receptionist left, he looked at AH and asked “have I taken your blood pressure?”

I mouthed “Are you *insert curse word here* kidding me?”

He ordered for some tests to be done, one immediately and two on Monday, one being a fasting blood test. He said to come back on Wednesday. He also prescribed antibiotics.

So we went to book the appointment and the receptionist began to book AH in under a different name altogether!

No wonder people are dropping like flies in this town.

In the 15 minutes that we were with the doctor, he looked directly at us twice - otherwise he was slamming the keyboard with his pokey fingers and looking at the computer screen. He slammed his hand against the printer twice to remove the prescription and the test requests that he printed out and couldn’t get us out of there fast enough.

Doctors never cease to confirm for me that they cannot be trusted to get it right.

By the time we filled the prescription, picked up my things from the shop, wheeled the trike out, we both arrived home separately at almost 4pm.

On top of everything else AH now has flu symptoms which have developed rapidly throughout the afternoon.

We’ve had a pretty relaxed evening and are now in bed.

I have a huge day planned for tomorrow which includes voting early - I’m tired just thinking about it all! 

So I’d best get some sleep.



Nite all.

Thursday, October 29, 2020

She’s Ba-ack

I had a good day as I returned to the shop after my mini break.

Even though there is a lot to do, I didn’t overdo it. I’m pacing myself and keeping a running ‘to do’ list so that I can steadily get stuff done.

I was able to display all the new jewellery which I had priced while I was at home on my so-called break haha.

When I counted my calendars, I discovered there were only 14 of my first order which should have been 30. So I tagged them all with the names of the first fourteen people who pre-ordered. I know there are three more packs of calendars coming but they are currently at a depot in Melbourne.

I checked with the post office on prices of packaging and mailing to my two interstate customers.

I helped a Dad select a handful of gifts for his teenage 3yr old (yes ... three year old) daughter. 

It was a good sales day AND there were lots of tyre kickers who will probably return tomorrow. One of my Saturday tyre kickers returned today to make his purchases.

Adoring Husband set the tables up in the training room so that I can spend time tomorrow setting up the work stations for the art class on Saturday.

He is not in the best of health at the moment and I asked him not to do anything, but he was sneaky while I was putting out the flags and signs and chairs. 🙄

I had a great visit from Aggie too! We had some good laughs and shared a bit of venting after listening to a local bloke whingeing about his health and his life. Then I told him to take his sad stories away from my shop.

The day passed quickly and after grabbing some protein from the butcher, we came home to put our feet up.

I should have had a swim or cleaned the bathroom but I received my new Leonie Dawson workbooks in the mail this morning and I was keen to sit down and get started on  the Goal Getter Life workbook. There is also a Goal Getter Biz workbook, a weekly planner workbook, a wall planner and a list planner.

So that’s how I filled most of my afternoon.

Best get some sleep now.



Nite all.

Wednesday, October 28, 2020

Pain in the Rear

I was up bright and early for meditation and we had to leave 20 minutes earlier than usual because I realised that the room wasn’t ready!

It was still in the same condition as when the jewellery rep came on Friday so we had to fold up the small table, get rid of a big cardboard box, vacuum the floor and set out the socially distanced chairs as well as place the donation box in its usual position.

We had four spare seats this morning because I think some regulars may have assumed it wasn’t on due to me being closed. It was still a good lesson nonetheless.

I scooted everyone out the door as soon as we finished and The Gypsy and I jumped in her car and headed out to her home.

We didn’t waste any time getting started on the sour dough bread making lesson. I took notes as she demonstrated and explained the process. While her demonstration loaf was in the oven, we sat down to a cup of tea and chatted about ‘stuff’ and ‘life’ and all the recent lessons we’ve learned, challenges we’ve faced and tests we’ve passed.

The bread was baked, she gave me a cup full of the bread starter to take home and start my own production and cut four slices from her loaf for me to take home and share with Adoring Husband.

The fermentation process that’s involved with making your own sourdough bread removes the gluten from the flour. The stuff you buy from most bakers and supermarkets is not “real” sourdough because of the shortcuts they take in making it. So, by rights, I should be able to eat this one without issue 👍

At midday, Adoring Husband arrived to pick me up and The Gypsy and I reluctantly said our goodbyes and ended the visit with a warm hug.

We drove to the shop to wait for more nonexistent deliveries. Annoying. I’ll make phone calls tomorrow.

As we waited at the door, customers wanted to browse so we welcomed them in and at least we made some sales to make the wait worthwhile.

Before we returned home, we bought some protein for dinner and a couple of salad items. I got to see the beginnings of the supermarket staff’s Halloween costumes - they will be in full costume for the next three days. It’s always a bit of fun at this time of year in Foodworks.

We rushed home in an attempt to miss the big storms looming upon us but we were very lucky and only copped the edge of it, which provided some more refreshing rain, but not as much as yesterday.

Just as AH and I were preparing dinner, the power failed! Luckily, he was using the barbecue and I was putting a salad together so it wasn’t a disaster - however, we have now been without power for more than two hours. 

The storms have all passed now. Every so often we hear a gentle rumble of thunder in the distance but we should have a quiet night.

AH is snoring in the chair beside me and there is a soft cool breeze blowing through the front windows which makes it more bearable inside.

I’m missing The Bachelorette so I’ll have to go online and catch the episode there.

Meanwhile, I may as well go to bed and listen to a good book until the battery in my phone goes dead.

I’m looking forward to going back to work tomorrow. I’ve enjoyed my two extra days of rest - although I did fill those days with plenty of activity, so I don’t exactly feel rested - but catching up socially with people who matter is oh so good for my soul.



Nite all.

Tuesday, October 27, 2020

Play Date

I’m worn out!

The girls picked me up at 9am.

First on the itinerary was morning coffee so we decided Aquavue would be the ideal location to commence our play date. 

I haven’t had coffee for 2 weeks and instead of ordering a tea, I ordered a non alcoholic pina colada which was refreshing and delicious!

We made our way across the road and a couple of us made a purchase from Banana Bender - the first of many! Fire and Ice was our next stop where we discovered a shop FULL of colourful, stylish, quality clothes. I tried on 8 tops and selected 3.

We drove to “Salt” for lunch, but of course we had to pop into “Luxe” next door to peruse their gorgeous linen and silk clothing lines. I tried on 4 tops and purchased none! A bit sad. I’ve never left there empty handed before. There’s a first time for everything.

For lunch, I enjoyed a spicy prawn salad with avocado, watermelon, rocket and pomegranate dressing and scattered with pepitas. I can’t even describe how delicious that lunch was. I accompanied it with an Immune Boost juice.

We all enjoyed our meals and each other’s company.

We planned our next move and made a beeline for Pialba Place where we checked out shoes and clothes. I purchased a top at “Shoe Frenzy”.

Our final stop for the day was Stocklands.

The Brains Trust was desperate for caffeine so we all trailed in her wake to The Coffee Club and we partook of tea or coffee and I ate a GF passionfruit cheesecake slice all on my own.

It was around about then that Aggie’s husband texted to say that huge storms were approaching and we should think about trying to beat them home. We checked the BOM and decided we still had a little time to play with so of course there were more clothes to be tried on.

I found another top and while I was paying for it, I was mentally searching my wardrobe deciding which of my tops I was going to reject to make room for these new ones. Turns out I could remove 8 to make way for the new 6.

On our way home, the dark and angry storm was looming from the east and the race was on!

Our first stop was The Brains Trust and we could see the black storm cell threateningly close by. A few big spots of rain hit the windscreen, but nothing too bad.

I was the third person dropped home and within 5 minutes of walking through my door, the heavens opened up! Heavy rain, lightning, thunder ... 45ml of rain in about 25 minutes. It wasn’t as bad as it looked on the BOM and not as bad as it sounded ... but fabulous soaking rain so desperately needed.

I gave Adoring Husband a fashion parade to show him my new Spring wardrobe and he appeared suitably impressed.

Thankfully, there was no power failure during the storm, so I removed a leftover chicken curry from the freezer and heated it for AH’s dinner. I mixed up a quick guacamole for myself and munched on that with GF crackers and a mango on the side.

The UK is now on daylight savings, so the music trivia show is on at 8.30pm - an hour later than usual, which is a bit of a pain. There may be nights when I cannot stay awake for it!



Anyway, it’s almost 10pm and I’m all shopped out and feeling a touch weary so I’m off to bed.

Nite all.

Monday, October 26, 2020

On The Job

This morning I began creating my next two lessons for journaling, but Adoring Husband decided he needed a nap so he disturbed the peace in my “office” (aka the bedroom) by laying down, snoring and having nightmares! 

That was the end of any work for me. I had finished the first lesson, so at least I got a start.

I got two loads of washing done, gave the celery juicer a good clean, picked up the first shipment of calendars from the post office, shopped for some lunch food, responded to some price requests on social media, watched 50 First Dates, made dinner, watched Junior Masterchef and played BBC2 Radio music trivia.

Now I am, once again, listening to AH snoring in the bed next to me.

Tomorrow I have a play date with my girls, which I am very much looking forward to.

This means I need my beauty sleep.




Nite all.

Sunday, October 25, 2020

Sweet Sunday

I did NOT spend all day in bed 😮

I think it was about 10am when I got out of bed and walked outside to dip my toe in the pool. The temp was perfect so I slipped into my swimmers and jumped in. I swam a few laps, floated a bit, did some stretches, took psychotic dog Colli in for a paddle and simply enjoyed the space.

My biggest plan for the day was to photograph the new jewellery, so I took it out to the Bali hut where the light was lovely and used my phone to get some pics.

I had to edit them and post them together on the Facebook page.










Adoring Husband and I wanted to watch the movie “Red” before the women’s NRL grand final between Broncos and Roosters, but we had 40 minutes to kill so we drove to drop off a camera to a customer who had left it with me in a panic because it wouldn’t focus. She had accidentally put it on manual focus. Easy peasy.

While I shopped at Foodworks for AH’s coffee and some avocados, he drove to my shop to empty the bin in the kitchen, which I’d forgotten to do yesterday.

We watched our movie and the footy and AH cooked a leg of lamb and baked vegetables for dinner. It was delicious 😋 

We’ve just watched Melbourne Storm defeat Penrith Panthers in the men’s NRL grand final. What a game!

I’m feeling a bit weary now so I think I shall head to bed.


Nite all.