Nice to see you!

Three major events occurred for me last year (2010), all in the space of about 2 weeks. I turned 50. The following day I got married. Two weeks later, my oldest daughter became pregnant with her first child and my first grandchild.

Most middle-aged people will tell you that in their minds, they still feel 20 something. It's the same for me.

Wasn't it only yesterday that I was planning a night out with guys from the surf club? That gorgeous new perm. Flaired, cuffed denims and the red t-shirt with the off-the-shoulder frill. Corked platform wedgies. **sigh**

Suddenly I'm looking in the mirror and wondering how 30 years can flash by so damned quickly!

So here I am in cyberspace, sharing my genuine shock and horror with anyone who'll listen and maybe I'll even meet some other over 50s who find themselves in the same predicament!

Welcome to my dilemna!!

Thursday, December 4, 2025

Sporting Fever

Decisions … Decisions … Decisions.

Now that I’m too old to play sports, I have become a little obsessed with watching sport.

This weekend, beginning today, I am spoilt for choice - between the Australian Open Golf and the 2nd Ashes Cricket Test between Australia and England. 

I love them both, so there will be channel surfing!

I missed most of both events today because I had the day in the Bay with BGWLBH, and tomorrow I’ll be in the Bay with Adoring Husband while he attends yet another medical test.

AH played golf today. Apparently, he played well.

I cooked a baked dinner (chicken) which I had to jump right into, the minute we arrived home, and it turned out to be delicious.

We all played trivia after dinner.

We were all in bed before 7.30pm.

God we’re old!

It’s now almost 11.30pm and I’m very tired.





Nite all.

Tuesday, December 2, 2025

Begin Again

I enjoyed the final meditation class of the year and followed that up with two hours chatting with The Gypsy.

She drove me home afterwards and I stepped into an empty house.

Adoring Husband was out mowing and BGWLBH was in the bay. Harley greeted me with a waggy tail and a great big smile!

My alone time was short lived and AH arrived home within about 20 minutes. BGWLBH pulled into the driveway about 45 minutes later.

I spent an hour on my bed resting, before taking Harley out to play and making dinner. Snags, leftover mash and salad. Nice and easy.

I cleaned out another fridge and now it smells like vanilla.

AH and I watched Big Brother before heading to bed. (Yes! AH watches Big Brother!)

Now I’m watching Love Island before sleepy time.




Nite all.

Monday, December 1, 2025

A New Week

I cleaned out the fridge.

It was pretty bad.

Now it’s very empty and we need to go food shopping.

No rain or storms today/tonight, which was very nice, for a change.

Adoring Husband had to drive into the bay for a medical test, one of three, so I had the lounge room and TV to myself. Love Island was my entertainment of choice haha.

Creamy garlic chicken with mash and veg (asparagus, beans, snow peas and carrot) for dinner.

Both AH and BGWLBH are on a diet, so my menu choices are limited.

The last meditation class for the year is tomorrow, so I’d best get some sleep for an early start.




Recipe for Christmas gnome cheesecakes

Nite all.

Saturday, November 29, 2025

Cuppla Dayz

Helen Mirren once said: Before you argue with someone, ask yourself, is that person even mentally mature enough to grasp the concept of a different perspective. Because if not, there's absolutely no point.

Not every argument is worth your energy. Sometimes, no matter how clearly you express yourself, the other person isn’t listening to understand—they’re listening to react.

They’re stuck in their own perspective, unwilling to consider another viewpoint, and engaging with them only drains you.

There’s a difference between a healthy discussion and a pointless debate.

A conversation with someone who is open-minded, who values growth and understanding, can be enlightening—even if you don’t agree. But trying to reason with someone who refuses to see beyond their own beliefs? That’s like talking to a wall. No matter how much logic or truth you present, they will twist, deflect, or dismiss your words, not because you’re wrong, but because they’re unwilling to see another side.

Maturity isn’t about who wins an argument—it’s about knowing when an argument isn’t worth having. It’s realizing that your peace is more valuable than proving a point to someone who has already decided they won’t change their mind. Not every battle needs to be fought. Not every person deserves your explanation.

Sometimes, the strongest thing you can do is walk away—not because you have nothing to say, but because you recognize that some people aren’t ready to listen. And that’s not your burden to carry.


Another quiet couple of days.

Adoring Husband has been hard at work in the yard, mowing, pruning and edging.

BGWLBH has been hard at work doing her art which has been selling at a steady rate in the art/craft store near the esplanade in Hervey Bay.

I have been hard at work playing with Harley and watching the Australian PGA Championship golf.

Today was “fend for yourself” dinner and I cooked up some honey/soy prawn cutlets and served them with avocado/mango/goats cheese/pine nut salad. It was perfectly divine!

We were hit with a mighty storm tonight with a couple of big thunderbolts very close by, some heavy rain (7mm in about 10 mins) and some strong gusty winds. Yet again, we survived.

Can you believe that we are almost in December?

Christmas is close and another year is soon to begin! I am approaching my 66th birthday, my grand daughters will be turning 5 and 15 next year, Harley is already 3yrs old and the world is very much a crappier place than it ever has been before.

I’m hoping to find some motivation, inspiration and enthusiasm in 2026. I’m not sure what for yet, but I reckon ‘something’ will come to me. I’ve been in the doldrums for way too long.

Right now, it’s time to sleep.








Nite all.


Thursday, November 27, 2025

The Week That Was

The land down under or Stralya to some

The land I was raised in; my country; my home.

A kid in the bush with parents true blue

Weekends with ferrets and an old 22.

A bright future ahead for my country and me

As I considered my options of what I would be.

A chippy said Dad. A fine carpenter son

You’ll makes lots of money, provide, and save some

But as I grew older, the country fell sick

To greedy politicians and lazy misfits.

When I was a kid, the water was free

It fell from the sky and made rivers and creeks

And the farmer was happy, the milk tasted great

A steak you could chew and was big as your plate

A Sunday drive with family we’d go

Mum made the sangas and a thermos with brew

It was just a few bob...to go to Noojee

We’d fish there for yabbies and pick blackberries

Now there’s a meter for this and for that

And payment plans for those doing it tough

And china buys country, dairy farms and a wharf

Cattle stations, fruit farms and what else, what a thought

Now the country she burns and koalas cry out

And the wombats dig deeper to keep the flames out

Climate change shout the greenies, its the end of the world

Green house gases........CO2, ......we need  that Im sure

But apparently not. The UN said fix it, you’re polluters they say

And you’re major emitters

While China and India have it their way

Developing nations, we can’t stand in their way

And while where at it let’s give them some dosh

To build a few power stations and lots more sweat shops

Now the pollies all bicker and run each other down

And you’d think question time was run by some clowns

Now where are the men and the women of the past

The ones with principles and honesty and heart

The ones who cared the direction we’d go

It’s our nation, our country.....the Australia we knew

It’s the land we adopted. Captian Cook...he knew

It’s a place with riches beyond wildest dreams

But we give it to other countries

I’m not sure that I see..........

Because others benefit from  these riches and gold

It’s not for my kids or the Aussies of old

It’s poverty and meagre pensions for those who live now

While poliies feather their nest with gold and silver down.

Retirement looks good for the Canberra lot

Can you pay my rates and electricity you lazy lot?


As usual, not much to report.

My five day fast ended at 5.30pm today.

I feel better for it, but not as good as I expected. I might do it once each month for a while and see if the improvements are accumulative.

On Tuesday, I accompanied Adoring Husband to his doctor’s appointment where he received excellent news about his yearly blood tests. Everything is perfect.

Not such good news about his weight gain. He’s the heaviest he’s been since we moved to this town, so he’s now been given until Valentine’s Day to lose it. He will do that easily, just by reducing his coffee intake, and dropping bread, Weis bars and Toblerone chocolate from his diet.

It concerned me greatly that the doctor was very quick to suggest Ozempic as his first option for weight loss. 

No thank you.

AH needs to have a couple of other tests to check his lungs, bladder and prostate. Watch this space.

We ran some errands while in town and I was exhausted by the time we arrived home because I was running on 2 hours of sleep. 

On Wednesday, I spent the day in the bay with BGWLBH, which wasn’t so bad because I’d slept well the night before.

Today, I missed morning tea with my art girls, because I was feeling less than my best. I’m too old to be gallivanting all over the place for days in a row - although doing it in the middle of a 5 day fast probably wasn’t a great idea!

I rested and rejuvenated today and feel much better for it.

It’s almost midnight so it’s time to sleep.





Nite all.