Nice to see you!

Three major events occurred for me last year (2010), all in the space of about 2 weeks. I turned 50. The following day I got married. Two weeks later, my oldest daughter became pregnant with her first child and my first grandchild.

Most middle-aged people will tell you that in their minds, they still feel 20 something. It's the same for me.

Wasn't it only yesterday that I was planning a night out with guys from the surf club? That gorgeous new perm. Flaired, cuffed denims and the red t-shirt with the off-the-shoulder frill. Corked platform wedgies. **sigh**

Suddenly I'm looking in the mirror and wondering how 30 years can flash by so damned quickly!

So here I am in cyberspace, sharing my genuine shock and horror with anyone who'll listen and maybe I'll even meet some other over 50s who find themselves in the same predicament!

Welcome to my dilemna!!

Saturday, May 12, 2012

Day two - the journey continues

I am exhausted!

Day two, 8.35pm at night and I am ready for bed ... actually, I am already sitting up in bed as I type this.

We stayed in Canowindra last night in the Riverview Motel, which did NOT have a view of the river and we had a delicious dinner at the Canowindra RSL.

We left town bright and early this morning.  We had set our alarm for 7am, but we were both awake at 6am, so we were packed and in the car by 7am and heading out of town towards Orange where we would find, none other than, Maccas, for breakfast!

Just as we headed out of town, we came over a rise and all the morning mist was floating over the hills and valleys, so we stopped to get some photos.  While we were there, in the distance, a hot air balloon floated up from behind a hill!


What a fabulous sight!  What a way to start the day!

We drove on to Orange, taking a few more lovely misty shots along the way (which I will post later when I have more time).

After breakfast, we were driving through Molong and came across this interesting place with a sign out the front that read 'Antiques and Collectibles.  Come in for a browse.'

So we did.

I can't wait to show you all of the photos that I took here.  Somebody had made huge detailed pieces of art out of all the scrap metal and bits and pieces from the yard - which must have been at least 2 acres, possibly 3 acres in size.

The man was opening up as we arrived, so I walked through the front of the grounds to the building where he opened a huge door into a giant shed which was absolutely full of everything you can imagine, from iron kettles, flags, signs, car parts, furniture, crockery, cutlery, bottles, china, salt and pepper shakers, glass cabinets, suitcases, lamps, saddles, hubcaps, tools, silverware, toys, ties, chains ... oh you name it, he had it!!

I walked through the shed to the doors he was opening at the back and stood there absolutely awe-struck!

I looked to the left ...


and then I looked to the right ...


I can't wait to show you all the other photos that I took, but they will have to wait for another day.

Amazing stuff.

Not long out of Molong and we came across another strange and wonderful sight.

What looked like a graveyard for planes, trains and trams from all different eras.



Such strange things you see on the back roads in rural NSW.

Soon after that, I desperately needed to use the bathroom ... and I mean desperately!  There had been no signs for rest areas and the next town was 46 kms away.  I couldn't wait that long.

Luckily, Wilbur-Herbert had nicked some toilet paper from the motel that we'd stayed at, so after much hilarity at my expense and quite a few swear words from me, BGWLBH turned into a side road and dropped me off at a bit of a culvit, where I was hidden from the highway.

She drove away up over the hill, to give me some privacy and I said that I would text her when I was ready.

Still feeling very vulnerable to the world, I took a deep breath, slid my jeans down and squatted in the bushes to do my busness.

No sooner had I done that, when a bloody council ute turned off the highway and drove down the road past me.  I don't know how many were in the ute, or if they even saw me.

I couldn't even look up.  I closed my eyes as he drove past, muttering to myself "Oh my god!  I can't believe this!  I can't believe this!"  Many swear words passed my lips in horror and embarrassment.

I quickly rearranged myself and sent BGWLBH a text and she appeared rather quickly over the hill to pick me up.

I shrieked to her what had happened and we squealed and laughed and swore and cringed as we swung back onto the highway and drove for two kilometres when we suddenly came across a very neat, solar powered, clean looking rest area with ... you guessed it ... public toilets!!!

UGH!!

Even worse ... another 5 kilometres further up the road was a similar set-up!!

Could not believe it!!

I guess every holiday has to have a story doesn't it?!

My last photo for tonight is Wilbur-Herbert, who claimed the double bed as soon as we arrived in Coonabarabran.


We plan on staying here for two nights and will be hiking in the Warrabungles tomorrow and star gazing tomorrow night.

Right now, I want to be gazing at the back of my eyelids.

Nite all.

Friday, May 11, 2012

Day One of RSRT

You wouldn't believe it, but I have kept a diary today so that I would remember to write everything down in detail.

The diary is downstairs in the glovebox of the car.  It's 10.30pm and BGWLBH is sleeping, so I can't disturb her by going downstairs to get it (we are on the top floor).

I have spent the last three hours going through some photos, so I will post a few of them and I promise to bring you up-to-date on the goings-on of the trip tomorrow night.

There was quite a bit of silliness today and we saw lots of unusual things like an emu and an echidna.

We are so used to driving on the freeways where you don't see that sort of thing anymore .. and now we are on the back roads where there is little traffic and so much more to look at!

Wilbur-Herbert, our travelling companion was keen to get started this morning.
Where else would BGWLBH want to go for breakfast???

Wilbur-Herbert is a keen tennis player himself.

Wilbur-Herbert's Grandfather used to tell him stories about bit old useless pieces of rusty machinery
Just the other side of Ardlethan - a surprise oasis.
Wilbur-Herbert takes his own toilet paper everywhere - just in case!
We saw his silhouette in the distance and when we stopped he came huffing and puffing and grunting straight at us!
No other emus and nothing else for miles - BGWLBH was terrified that he was going to attack me
so she was screaming for me to get back in the car!
Went to a B&S Ball here years ago.

The main road of Ariah Park.
The men in the next photo told us that this is the original facade of the shop.
We forget these men's names, but the one in front owns the shop where they are sitting.
Adoring Husband and I considered buying this pub about 5 yrs ago.
It has a crack in the entire building that gapes about 6 inches wide.
The Barmedman Pub
That's about all I can manage tonight.  It's been a big day and I've already spent hours on the photos, posting them to facebook and then to here.

We hope to start bright an early tomorrow morning to catch some nice morning light.

Tomorrow night I will provide more detail about our days so far!

For now, that's all I can bring you from day one of our Rock Star Road Trip.

Nite all.

Thursday, May 10, 2012

The Final Countdown

Can you believe it?  Barring all catastrophes, we leave tomorrow!

This morning, BGWLBH came back from her walk declaring that there was a photo opportunity in the back paddock, so I hurriedly grabbed my camera, swapped my slippers for my runners, and still wearing my brightly coloured Sesame St flannelette pyjamas, went traipsing through the long grass to the end of the back paddock.

Behind the paddock are two very large piles of dead wood/trees waiting to be burned off, and sitting proudly on top of one of those piles was a Black Shouldered Kite.


We waited and watched as another one was hovering in the distance searching the ground for food (they invariably catch small mice - because they only have small beaks for ripping their food apart).

As it got closer to us, the first kite, very noisily chased it away, and then came back to the closer pile of trees to land.

I thought I had captured the perfect bird shot, but when I got home and looked at it on my monitor, it wasn't focussed and all I have is this for my efforts ...

10. A favourite word
For the May Photo a Day challenge 
I almost cried.

It goes on my 'missed opportunities' list along with the rainbow reflected in the glassy river, that I missed because it was the ONE time that I didn't have my camera with me!

I hope that he is there again tomorrow morning .. I hope that he frequents that particular spot for breakfast every day!!  **fingers crossed**

The house inspection went very smoothly today and was over in a flash.

We arrived home to find BGWLBH's Dad cooking a roast lamb dinner.  It was DELICIOUS!  Accompanying the roast lamb was potato, pumpkin, carrots, parsnip, snow peas, beans, onion, spinach and red cabbage.

I almost licked my plate clean!

So tomorrow morning, we just have to pack the car with all of our crap ... of which there will be a lot because BGWLBH needs a bag of Winter clothes and a bag of Autumn - ish clothes.

It's that time of year when you never know what the weather will be like from one town to the next - especially in NSW, so she has to cover all bases.

I don't have to worry because I don't feel the cold so much.  I have my big black coat if it gets too cold.

I didn't sleep too well last night in the new bed in the bus.  There are noisy barking dogs in the neighbourhood, crowing roosters that actually crow ALL night, BGWLBH's dog kept waking up and shaking herself right next to my bed AND when she sleeps, she snores (the dog, not BGWLBH).

So it was a restless sleep.  Hopefully, now that my body knows what to expect, I will sleep more soundly.

Anyway, my dreams will include the final countdown to ROCK STAR ROAD TRIP, so I am off to dreamland.  See you tomorrow in another town!

Nite all.

Wednesday, May 9, 2012

Too Old for this &@$#

Yup!  Moving day today.

It was nice to watch the young men moving the furniture.  Muscles on muscles and interesting tattoos and the ability to single handedly lift a queen size mattress (Yes! Each of them carried a queen sized mattress on their own!) and then take a two foot high step in a single bound.

So fit and full of energy.  I wonder what drugs they are on???  I'll have what they're having!

Young Maori men.  Good job boys ... although not too good with 'addition'.  They thought that 1 3/4 hours at $125 per hour came to the grand total of $375.  Thank goodness the 'eye candy' didn't scramble our brains!

Once we got that part over and done with, it was time to clean.  Ugh!!

Cleaning walls, steam cleaning carpet, pressure spraying the verandah, scrubbing the bathroom, polishing the stainless steel cook top, washing the kitchen cupboards and splashback, polishing the floor boards, vacuuming.

Oh my aching back!

It took the two of us about 4 hours and we still have to do one more layer of polish on the floor boards tomorrow before the landlord inspection.

My poor old body is struggling tonight and we will probably both be asleep before 9pm.

We are in a big old bus that was converted for travelling around Australia.

BGWLBH is on the big queen size bed at the back of the bus.  I am on the fold down couch in the middle of the bus.  The bus is a bit bouncy, so we feel every movement - may make for a restless sleep, but at least we only have to stay here for two nights and then we are OFF!!

The bus is for sale - $26000.  Nice sized kitchen with a fridge, gas stove, sink and plenty of cupboard space.  Little table and two comfy chairs.  Fold down lounge.  Shower and toilet.  Air conditioned.  Very spacious.

I'll let you know tomorrow how comfy the fold down couch is.

I did take a photo today, of a blue tongue lizard under the house, but it's still on the camera and I am too tired to put any effort into sharing those photos tonight.

Instead I will share the last few photos from the May Photo a day challenge.







Now it's time to sleep.

Nite all.

Tuesday, May 8, 2012

Fingers Crossed

Yes!  There is light at the end of the tunnel!

Tomorrow morning at 9am, the removalist arrives to cart the furniture.  Then BGWLBH and I have to shampoo carpets, polish floor boards and pressure wash the front porch.  We should only have one car loads of stuff left to take with us when we leave at the end of the day. **fingers crossed**

So that gives us Thursday to tidy up any loose ends, organise the landlord inspection and pack our gear ready to leave town on Friday morning. **fingers crossed**

Today, we looked at another house, which will be available to rent in July.  It was absolutely perfect and just ten minutes out of town going West.  The rent may be a little more than expected, although the owner hinted that an arrangement could be made for the right tennant.

The owner wants a long term, stable and reliable tennant.  BGWLBH wants long term, stable accommodation with a good landlord.  Win Win!  **fingers crossed**

This evening I caught up with my sister-in-law from my first marriage.  In the late 70s and early 80s, we were very close friends and spent a lot of time together.  We both lived in Canberra with our then husbands and later, we were in Cootamundra at the same time for a couple of years.

It was the best of times and we were part of a loving, warm and close family.  I remember those times fondly and I love that I still have contact with most of the family - hooray for facebook - but there have been many years gap between face to face meetings.

Tonight was one of those rare meetings and we had dinner together.  Unfortunately, our time was limited, but we did pack a lot of chatter into just over 90 minutes!  It was so nice to catch up and I think we filled each other in on the important happy events in our lives, as well as some of the sadness.

She was in my town last year, but I was not there at the time, so even though she got to see Vegan Chickie, the Bare-chested Chef, Chicklet and Adoring Husband, we missed each other.

She is in Griffith at the moment for study/work and we almost missed each other again, but my mixed up circumstances led to us both being here at the same time.

It proves that something GOOD comes from everything.  My extenuating circumstances led to me having a 'moment' to catch up with an old friend.

I'm so pleased that it worked out that way!

A couple of photos to add to the end here.  I have been hoping to get a photo of one of the vineyards around town, but the time of day never seemed right to catch some nice light.  Today, out past Tharbogang, I got the chance for a reasonable shot.



... and then a nice one from the front garden of the house we looked at.


A good night of sleep tonight should give me the energy to complete our big tasks tomorrow and then we can start packing for the ROCK STAR ROAD TRIP!!  **fingers crossed**

Nite all.

To Paint ... or not to paint.

Quite a productive day today.

BGWLBH tried to spot paint some marks on the wall last week, but used paint that we mismatched quite badly.

We matched all the other paints beautifully, but somehow, we messed this one up ... twice!

After choosing paint that was too dark the first time and too light the second time, and after much deliberation, we decided to paint the whole room!

It took us about two hours and it was finished and looking pretty darn good.   I reckon we were more proud of our efforts than Michelangelo was when he completed the Sistine Chapel!!

What a team!

BGWLBH then pressure cleaned the concrete outside the back door.

I washed the lounge room windows, then pulled the screen off the bedroom window so that it and the outside glass could be cleaned ... let me tell you what a job it was getting the screen back in ... I'm sure you can all relate to that experience!

A few little spot cleaning jobs around the house and we were exhausted and in need of rest.  I cooked a nice stir fry for dinner with lots of vegetables ... we need sustenance to continue the moving process tomorrow ... and then we watched The Voice.

BGWLBH, who is now sleeping in the lounge room on a mattress while the paint finishes drying in her bedroom, fell asleep long before the show finished.

So I've spent a little time playing with some photos from the birthday party and the horses.

BGWLBH & her Goddaughter Lu
Deputy Daws
Mrs Doodle Doo (due to her boisterous laughter)
I wasn't very happy with these shots, but The Horse Whisperer was over the moon with them and has been raving about them to anyone who'll listen!

This boy is the show off
This one is very old
This is her favourite shot.
I really need sleep ... tomorrow morning, I expect there may be some sore muscles in places that I haven't used for quite some time.

To paint or not to paint??  I choose NOT to paint :o)  Not any more.  Please?

Nite all.


Sunday, May 6, 2012

Full Moon Birthday

Well I think the birthday girl had a nice day today.

Her rules were

  1. No presents
  2. No singing
  3. No cake
So, most people brought a gift.

Some people sang as they walked through the door.

One person brought a cake ... but it wasn't a birthday cake and it had no candles.

The hostess, Deputy Daws, had cooked a banquet and covered everybody's dietary requirements.  We were so full by the end of the day, we could barely move!

She started with nibbles.  Fruits, cheeses, olives, various crackers, crisp breads, greek meatballs with dips and sauces.  Then we moved outside and she provided spinach & cheese pastries, vegetarian pizza, garlic and herb breads, gluten free pasta dish and a layered salad.

For dessert there was tiramisu and that delicious chocolate pavlova with cream and berries.

Champagne and wine for drinkies.  Coffee and tea for 'after'.

So we did lots of talking and laughing and rigorous gossiping, a little singing and dancing, a few group photos (but none with me in them).




They were all in fine form and honestly, there really wasn't that much alcohol passing lips.  They are silly like this ... naturally!

Then we all said our goodbyes and the birthday girl and I scooted home in time to catch the full moon rising over the horizon.



I'm sure there will be some spectacular shots posted on facebook and flickr tomorrow because the moon was pretty darned amazing!

So I am definitely all worn out from so much partying and trekking across the farm to get a good vantage point for the moonrise.

I will sleep well tonight.

Happy birthday BGWLBH ... if you read this, your birthday is not over ... there is still the ROCK STAR ROAD TRIP ... and a few weeks after you return home, there will be another present!!  But that one is a big secret and you don't even get a hint!

Nite all.