Nice to see you!

Three major events occurred for me last year (2010), all in the space of about 2 weeks. I turned 50. The following day I got married. Two weeks later, my oldest daughter became pregnant with her first child and my first grandchild.

Most middle-aged people will tell you that in their minds, they still feel 20 something. It's the same for me.

Wasn't it only yesterday that I was planning a night out with guys from the surf club? That gorgeous new perm. Flaired, cuffed denims and the red t-shirt with the off-the-shoulder frill. Corked platform wedgies. **sigh**

Suddenly I'm looking in the mirror and wondering how 30 years can flash by so damned quickly!

So here I am in cyberspace, sharing my genuine shock and horror with anyone who'll listen and maybe I'll even meet some other over 50s who find themselves in the same predicament!

Welcome to my dilemna!!

Friday, June 20, 2025

Taking it Easy

Such a good reminder. Innocence is something to be treasured and protected in a world that seems to have forgotten how important it is to healthy emotional development. 

A timely quote from Corrie ten Boom.

“Sex,” I was pretty sure, meant whether you were a boy or girl, and “sin” made my aunt @Tante Jans very angry, but what the two together meant I could not imagine. And so, seated next to Father in the train compartment, I suddenly asked, “Father, what is sexsin?”

He turned to look at me, as he always did when answering a question, but to my surprise he said nothing. At last he stood up, lifted his traveling case from the rack over our heads, and set it on the floor. 

“Will you carry it off the train, Corrie?” he said. 

I stood up and tugged at it. It was crammed with the watches and spare parts he had purchased that morning. 

“It’s too heavy,” I said.

“Yes,” he said. “And it would be a pretty poor father who would ask his little girl to carry such a load. It’s the same way, Corrie, with knowledge. Some knowledge is too heavy for children. When you are older and stronger you can bear it. For now you must trust me to carry it for you.” 

- from The Hiding Place: The Story of Corrie Ten Boom

We are asking our children to carry loads that are way too heavy for them. They should not be forced, as children, to see and feel the world through the lens of adults. 

Innocence is worth protecting and worth fighting for. We need to do our part as teachers, parents and caregivers to carry certain things for them until they are old enough to bear the load.

Thursday was a day in The Bay, with lots of shopping. The crisper drawers in the fridge were almost bare and by the time we finished shopping, the boot of the car was chockers!

Dinner was the last of the lasagne out of the freezer, served with garden salad.

Today was a gentle day on the couch. 

Adoring Husband drove into The Bay early to return our new photocopier/printer and returned with one that works.

That’s his MO. He always takes the faulty “thing” home and has to return it. Even now, I can print from my phone, but nothing happens when he tries to print from his iPhone or iPad. He can print from his laptop without issue.

Anything electrical or electronic is problematic.

I spent the day either playing outside with Harley, or parked on the couch watching Great Pottery Throw Down, Landscape Artist of the Year, a Netflix movie, my quiz shows and then in my bedroom watching Jetlag The Game on YouTube and now the football.

I drank a pineapple cruiser that didn’t agree with me - hence my time in bed watching Jetlag.

Now it’s time to sleep. The neighbours across the road sound like they are winding up for another party night.






Nite all.

Wednesday, June 18, 2025

Whew! A Win!

By the skin of our teeth!

QUEENSLANDER!!!

QLD 26 NSW 24

I had to leave the room in the final 4 minutes because the stress was too much for me!

Today was pretty quiet.

Adoring Husband drove into The Bay with a list and it could have been a peaceful morning for me, except he phoned me 5 times.

I did get to watch a couple of Art Masterclasses that AH had recorded for me.

Harley and I played.

I baked some banana bread.

I watched the movie “Sleepers”, an oldie but a goodie.

Dinner was a chicken pasta dish with a tomato, pumpkin and chilli based sauce. It received good reviews … another one of my made up concoctions.

We played trivia before State of Origin.

Now I will go to sleep feeling comfortable with the QLD win.





Nite all.

Tuesday, June 17, 2025

Discontented Me

I tried the new hairdresser in town today.

It has been exactly one year to the day since my last haircut!

I am not happy with the result and I won’t return.

I asked for 10cm off, but she cut almost 20cm. It’s uneven - the left front is about 1cm (or more) shorter than the right front.

She layered it so that it curls up instead of under. She partly blow dried it, which just left it full and fuzzy.

BGWLBH was kind enough to straighten it for me which added about 2cm to the length, but the layering is now so uneven and ugly. 

😩🫣🤬

I am grateful that she only charged me $34 for shampoo, condition, cut and partial blow dry … however, all of that took less than 25 mins.

I feel a bit confused and almost like she did it on purpose. She didn’t even use a mirror to show me the back and seemed to shuffle me out the door very quickly.

What makes all of that very strange, is that when I made the appointment, she gave me the options of 1pm or 3pm so that she could “give me quality time and give me the full experience.”

That is not what I received.

I don’t get it.

Luckily I had been to meditation this morning.

Dinner was a mixed bag tonight. Adoring Husband got leftover hamburger patties with chips and salad. BGWLBH got chips with curly salad and dressing. I had a leftover pork sausage.

I was certain that it was Wednesday and I was preparing for State of Origin! Only 24 hours too early haha.

Now I’m in bed feeling sorry for myself and my crappy haircut.

Time to sleep.







Nite all.

Monday, June 16, 2025

Mondayitis

A day in The Bay.

We went to purchase our lotto from our favourite newsagent on Main Street, only to discover that it has closed down! Forever! We were only there a week ago and the lady didn’t say a word.

So we decided to try the newsagent at Pialba Shopping Centre which is basically just around the corner (diagonally opposite Office Works). Thankfully it was open BUT Woolworths is still closed for renovations since the floods in March, as is Bakers Delight and The Reject Shop.

I didn’t even look at the other shops, so I don’t know how many others are closed, but it sure was quiet down that way!

After coffee, groceries, the butcher, Choice, Chemist and Su Jus we headed home.

Just in time for my quiz shows.

Harley got some play time and I prepared home made hamburgers for dinner.

Lots of trivia.

Farmer Wants a Wife.

Bed.

Time to sleep so that I can wake up early for meditation.







Nite all.

Sunday, June 15, 2025

It’s All Done

Every person in our footy tipping comp picked exactly the same teams to win in every game.

The State of Origin game will determine the best winner for this week.

On Saturday, after Harley play, I gave the fridge a complete clean out. My job was accompanied with ridiculous comments from my team mates, wondering why I was motivated to complete this chore.

That just annoyed me.

When I finished, I made myself a roast pork and cranberry sauce toasted sour dough sandwich and a cup of tea.

By then, it was almost lunch time because I didn’t get out of bed until 9am.

I’m sure I watched a Netflix movie but I don’t remember. 

At 3pm I received a text from The Gypsy, suggesting a zoom meeting, so I took Harley out for a quick play and then settled in my room for our catch up.

It was 6pm when we finished!

I crumbed my prawns and cooked them in time to watch the 2nd football game of the day.

Late last night I watched “27 Dresses” followed by “The Sun is also a Star”, which didn’t finish until 2am. I really loved that 2nd movie.

I couldn’t drag myself out of bed until 10am today!

Harley play, brunch and a NZ movie called “Red, White and Brass” which was a bit of fun. We finished the Aust series “The Survivors” and then watched the football.

For dinner I fried up some chicken, made potato chips and served it with curls of carrot, beetroot and cucumber, shredded lettuce, tomato wedges, snow peas cut into strips, air fried chickpeas, red onion, goats cheese and dressing.

BGWLBH loved it. Adoring Husband did NOT.

Now I’m off to sleep.






Nite all.