Nice to see you!

Three major events occurred for me last year (2010), all in the space of about 2 weeks. I turned 50. The following day I got married. Two weeks later, my oldest daughter became pregnant with her first child and my first grandchild.

Most middle-aged people will tell you that in their minds, they still feel 20 something. It's the same for me.

Wasn't it only yesterday that I was planning a night out with guys from the surf club? That gorgeous new perm. Flaired, cuffed denims and the red t-shirt with the off-the-shoulder frill. Corked platform wedgies. **sigh**

Suddenly I'm looking in the mirror and wondering how 30 years can flash by so damned quickly!

So here I am in cyberspace, sharing my genuine shock and horror with anyone who'll listen and maybe I'll even meet some other over 50s who find themselves in the same predicament!

Welcome to my dilemna!!

Saturday, July 26, 2025

Festival Time

It’s raining.

Will it pass by morning?

Tomorrow is the Childers Festival, which we have attended every year since 2008 (except Covid year) and I’ve been counting down the days!

Rain is forecast and Adoring Husband is not comfortable driving in the rain (I also don't feel comfortable, especially on the highway), so it all hinges on how the view from the window looks in the morning.

Fingers crossed.

My footy tipping is not going as well as I’d hoped, however, I have hit the lead, with two more games remaining for this round.


Today was a quiet Saturday.

BGWLBH did our ironing.

AH had his weekly bro coffee date.

I made honey soy prawns for “fend for yourself” dinner.

Now I’m in bed and ready to fall asleep to the sound of Sex in the City 2.



Nite all.

Friday, July 25, 2025

Ending With Friday

You know that I love my tennis … here is a great story involving the current number one player, Jannik Sinner.

Jannik Sinner calls it “Dogtopia” — a vast 15-hectare facility under construction near Bologna, backed by a $5 million investment from him. It’s not just a shelter, but a healing center for abused, abandoned, or traumatized dogs. “We have training fields, water play areas, 24/7 veterinary care — but above all, we have love.” Sinner shared that dogs are not just pets — they’re family. He hopes Dogtopia will become a national model and inspire other athletes to take action.

BGWLBH had a nail appointment today, so we used the opportunity to do a fairly big shop.

We started with coffee at our favourite little shop - OBC The Original Bike Cafe on Taylor Street.

While BGWLBH was having her nails done, I browsed through Choice, purchasing ribbon x 5, water colour brushes and water paint pallet, stationery etc.

Next I walked to Big W and got bulk tp, a set of sheets for Adoring Husband and a roll of chux dish cloths.

By this time, BGWLBH was finished and we drove to another shopping centre to update our lotto and buy fresh bread and rolls from the bakery. Also a quick visit to the Reject Shop.

Back to Coles and the Butcher before ordering my Su Jus green juice.

Next was Eli Waters to visit Farm Gate for fresh fruit and veg, then fresh seafood for the weekend.

We were home by 1pm.

It took a while to unpack everything and then package all of Harley’s bits and pieces (chicken feet, sardines and beef bones) to freeze, so it was nice to eventually sit down for my quiz shows.

I made the marinade for tonight’s chicken wings and AH did the cooking. 

I’ve been in bed watching the footy since 6pm. My tips are going well, but Parramatta are currently beating my Broncos 18-14 with 34 :minutes to go. I’ve tipped the Broncos, but Mitchell Marsh is back from injury for Parramatta and he makes all the difference!

Now I’m off to send good energy through the TV screen for my team.





Nite all.

Thursday, July 24, 2025

Another Week Bites the Dust

Wednesday was very quiet.

I cooked chicken scallopini for dinner with mash, green beans and carrot.

We played trivia.

It was a grey showery day.

Today, I decided to join the art girls at the Lions Park for morning tea. It was a tough decision because I wasn’t feeling very motivated, but I’m so pleased that I made the effort because it was a very pleasant morning.

The weather was glorious, the tide was high and the sunshine was glistening on the water. There were a few boats out fishing, lots of bird life, dolphins way out in the distance and plenty of locals out walking their dogs.

We had lots of laughs and because it’s been so long since we’ve seen each other, there was plenty of news to catch up on.

I arrived home a bit before midday with a small grocery shop and spent the afternoon with Harley on the couch.

After Harley play at 4pm, I prepared crumbed chicken for dinner which I served with coleslaw and a chunky salsa of tomato, cucumber, avocado, pear and radish.

We played trivia and I’m now in bed watching the football.

I’ve chosen this week as my “joker round” which means I get double points for each correct selection.

This is a very close game between Sydney Roosters and Melbourne Storm. Roosters are winning by 2 points and there is still 24 minutes left in the game. I’ve selected Melbourne Storm.

It’s a bit chilly tonight 8° (feels like 6°).

I’m all warm and snug under the covers.

Happy 41st birthday to my Bubbles and happy 64th birthday to The Motivator for today.





Nite all.

Tuesday, July 22, 2025

Slow Start to the Week

Monday was a day of nothing really.

Lack of sleep contributed. The golf Open in Ireland was the reason.

My only achievement was making my version of Shepherds Pie for dinner.

Today was meditation, which was a great class and afterwards, The Gypsy and I separately found our way to a bench seat overlooking the river near the Lions Park, where we chatted for three hours.

While we chatted, I spotted, high in the sky above the water, an osprey, a white breasted sea eagle, a wedge tailed eagle, a grey crane, many pelicans and an array of the usual sea birds like terns and seagulls.

It was a perfect day, the temperature mild, the sky clear, the birds singing, the tide high but on its way out, there was a soft breeze and there were lots of people out walking, some with their dogs.

There was good energy and our seat was dappled in shade the whole time, so we felt comfortable and could have stayed there all day if The Gypsy didn’t have an appointment to attend.

It was after 1pm when I arrived home.

BGWLBH had repaired some of my mobiles that had fallen from under the Bali hut, so we took the ladder out and rehung them.

We played Sequence until my quiz shows came on, so Harley and I joined Adoring Husband in the lounge room to watch TV.

I cooked up a big batch of vegetables (capsicum, tomato, beans, snow peas, zucchini, carrot and red onion) plus a tray of sweet potato wedges to serve with last night’s leftovers.

We played trivia for an hour.

Then we all headed to bed … at 7.30pm.

I love my bed.






Nite all.

Sunday, July 20, 2025

Bingeworthy Sunday

I watched golf until about 2am, so I wasn’t ready to greet the day until well after 9am.

Harley and I played until after 10am.

Adoring Husband was off to work mowing for about 2 hours.

I binge watched a stack of episodes of “Say Yes to the Dress” until the football started.

I tipped all correctly except one.

I cooked chicken and vegetable soup for BGWLBH and served it with garlic bread. Hanaine chicken for AH and I. It’s full of coriander, which BGWLBH detests, hence the chicken soup for her.

We’ve been watching golf until bed time and I’m sitting up in bed watching golf now. It’s the final round of the Open, but the only Aussie has dropped right out of contention. The leaders haven’t even teed off yet and I’m ready to sleep, so I guess I’ll be falling asleep to the sound of clubs hitting balls!

I’ll find out who wins tomorrow.







Nite all.

John Farnham - "Help" (LIVE with the Melbourne Symphony Orchestra) Reaction

This is one of the MANY MANY reactions to John Farnham singing “Help” with the Melbourne Symphony Orchestra, that I’ve watched. 

I never tire of hearing him sing this song. It gives me chills every single time and I love the reactions of people from all around the world who hear it for the first time.


His voice is like no other.

I am sitting up in bed watching golf … the Open, Round 3.

BGWLBH and I spent the day at the RSL Club in The Bay.

They have a big golden ticket promotion happening this year. Once a month, they have 5 golden ticket draws. If your name comes out, you get to pick an envelope which has a golden ticket valued at either $1000 x 4, $2000, $3000 or $5000 (I think that’s right) - THEN - in November, you get to come back with all of the winners and one person gets to choose from 100 envelopes, one of which contains $500,000. All the rest contain $10,000.

BGWLBH won a golden ticket 2 months ago, so she’ll be back in November. I tried to win today and four of the five winners had names that started with the same two letters as my name. Alas, my name was not drawn.

Luckily it’s “fend for yourself” night so I didn’t have to worry about cooking because we were quite late home.

Super Saturday football night. Most of us only have one wrong tip this week, with two more games remaining.

I just realised that it’s now after midnight! Best get some sleep!




Nite all.