Nice to see you!

Three major events occurred for me last year (2010), all in the space of about 2 weeks. I turned 50. The following day I got married. Two weeks later, my oldest daughter became pregnant with her first child and my first grandchild.

Most middle-aged people will tell you that in their minds, they still feel 20 something. It's the same for me.

Wasn't it only yesterday that I was planning a night out with guys from the surf club? That gorgeous new perm. Flaired, cuffed denims and the red t-shirt with the off-the-shoulder frill. Corked platform wedgies. **sigh**

Suddenly I'm looking in the mirror and wondering how 30 years can flash by so damned quickly!

So here I am in cyberspace, sharing my genuine shock and horror with anyone who'll listen and maybe I'll even meet some other over 50s who find themselves in the same predicament!

Welcome to my dilemna!!

Saturday, June 29, 2019

Good Try

I triked to the local hall with just $2 in my wallet, to attend the inaugural art and craft expo.

It felt strange viewing all of that art belonging to everybody else and none belonging to The Motivator or myself. We would have held our own in that company for sure.



There was a fantastic variety of arts and crafts including acrylic and oil paintings, fluid art, pencil and pastel sketches, pictures made of beads, hand made gift cards, scarves, children and dolls clothes, purses, jewellery, macrame, plant pots, pottery, wood work and the most amazing and detailed fairy houses made out of bits and pieces of everything.

It was frustrating not having the cash to buy anything!

I rode to the shop to cover for The Motivator while she got to view the expo too.

When she got back, I withdrew some cash 💰 from the ATM and returned to the hall to buy all the things that I’d wanted earlier!

I got some jewellery made of paper ...


A necklace from Corinne, a lady that I met at the Bowls Club about 18 months ago and whom I follow on Facebook ...


A macrame wall hanging ...


A beautiful hand made purse ...




A dragon with wings made of beads (for Chicklet). The lady who made it has a son with Cystic Fibrosis and she is trying to raise enough money for a special trampoline to aide in supporting and strengthening his body as he deals with the illness.



I also bought 4 gift cards.

There was also a piece of art that I wanted, but it was sold in the hour between my visits, so it wasn’t meant to be. I might attempt to create it myself because it was beautiful and simplistic and I think I can do it.

I was absolutely exhausted by the time I arrived home!

It’s hard work being so social! I ran into a LOT of people I knew, some that I hadn’t seen for a year or more, so there was a lot of catching up to do in quick time. Chatting with all the artists about their work, their inspirations and their methods. Discussing the possibilities of classes in our training room.

To wind down, I changed out of my good clothes, hung out some washing, washed the dirty butt of a psychotic dog and got my art on ...




I’m not sure how I feel about it yet and I may add to it tomorrow - otherwise I'll just paint over the top of it!

We had paleo pizzas for dinner and Adoring Husband has just gone to bed, so I think I'll sign off and join him. We've planned a big day of clearing bedrooms tomorrow in preparation for our visitors who will be arriving in less than two weeks.

I'm all worn out.

Nite all.

Friday, June 28, 2019

Getting Physical

I rode my trike today for the first time in about 6 weeks!

While The Motivator was in Sydney, Adoring Husband drove me to work every day so I haven't had any form of exercise (apart from the daily shop walking) for that long.

It felt good to be out in the fresh air and sunshine but it was incredibly windy so, at times, it was hard going.

I had to go to the shop to talk business with TM and work out some financial stuff - that took over two hours and we caught up on other stuff and had a few laughs as well.

I picked up a parcel of mine that had my activated charcoal toothpaste in it - thank goodness because I was desperate! It also had liposomal Vit C and some probiotics.

I arrivéd home just in time to hook up to the live feed of the Oceania Athletics Championships where my cousin's daughter was racing in the finals of the 100 metre hurdles. She came 2nd! An unexpected silver medal result so I'm feeling pretty proud right now.





Her Mum and brother will be here next month for the annual Touch Football Carnival in The Bay so I'm looking forward to hearing all about this week's big event in Townsville. It's a very exciting result!

I decided, almost at the last minute, to go to the club this evening, not for the raffles, but to wish 'Madam Trivia' a happy birthday and give her a small gift.

Adoring Husband had our dinner cooked when I arrived home an hour earlier than usual.

I changed out of my good clothes and into my pyjamas and settled in to watch the football. I am two from two so far in the tipping comp.

I'm excited about Wimbledon Tennis Championships starting on Monday! I'll have a few days off work so that I can stay up late and watch some of the Aussie matches.

I'm off to bed now. I'll be attending the local Art and Craft Expo at the hall tomorrow morning and I've offered to cover TM at the shop so that she can attend as well - especially because she helped organise it!

I hope you have a great weekend - Queensland school holidays have commenced so hopefully things will pick up at the shop.

If she was still with us, my Mum would have celebrated her 79th birthday today. I can't even imagine her at that age! She would have been frail and cranky I reckon lol.

Happy Birthday Mum 💐


Nite all.

Thursday, June 27, 2019

Winners are Grinners

We didn't win any of the $80million but we consider ourselves winners in life so we are happy 😁

All I can hope for is fame and fortune with my art - haha.

Speaking of art, I got to play today.

I'm not a fan of this bright one because it didn't turn out anything like I'd planned. It may get painted over.


THIS one was an old painting that I've painted over and I love the colours and the cells in it.






Adoring Husband drove into town to run some errands today and I did some work related stuff, some washing, painted the first canvas,  watched a movie called "Funny People" before I returned to the art room (aka dining room) to complete the second canvas.

We hadn't made any plans for dinner and I had no prepared meals frozen to reheat so the local cafe was our choice for an easy take away meal.

No other news to report for the day except that I had a great day!


Nite all.

Wednesday, June 26, 2019

I Cancelled

I woke up this morning and it was cold and wet and windy.

I thought to myself "Today is a day to stay at home. A day to stay in bed late. A day to watch movies. A day to create art. A day to be with Adoring Husband."

So, just as I was about to text The Blonde Bombshell to tell her I wouldn't be attending the lady's lunch, I received a text from her asking how I was getting to the lunch!

I replied telling her that I had decided not to go.

Originally, I wondered what kind of excuse I could give for not going.

Then I realised that I didn't need an excuse.

I realised that I am an adult and my absence or my presence was not going to make any difference to anyone and was not going to effect the outcome of the lunch.

At first, as conditioning prevails, I felt guilty for deciding not to go.

We've all been there. We've all judged others for it.

Why?

There were about 30 women in attendance. None of them were relying on my company to make the lunch more bearable. I had no responsibility except to make up the numbers.

I tapped out the guilt.

EFT.

Google it.

I stayed in bed for a long time listening to the rain and wind while feeling snug and safe in my room.

I got up after midday and mixed 18 containers of paint. That's a LOT and it took almost 90 minutes. I mix acrylic paint with floetrol and water - all in separate containers (which you can see in the photos).

Then I decided to do one of my flower paintings using the swipe method.





I'm not a fan. I think I prefer the white background for the flowers. It makes them appear more vibrant.

During all of that I cooked up some hot and spicy pork ribs. I made a marinade of sweet chilli sauce, blueberry balsamic vinegar, maple syrup, pulled pork seasoning, paprika, white pepper, salt and some water.

I basted the ribs with the marinade as it cooked over a period of 2 hours. The meat was very tender and the marinade was very hot and spicy ... especially for Adoring Husband who had to blow his nose frequently during the meal lol.

My day has been very enjoyable and looking at the photos of the lady's lunch, it looked like they had a nice time too. It was nice to receive a voice message from one of the ladies asking if I was ok because she missed me at the lunch.

I'm not sure what I'll do tomorrow. Perhaps some more art. There are other things on my 'to do' list that are not as enjoyable, but I'll see how motivated I feel when I wake.

Now I'm off to read a book.

Nite all.

Tuesday, June 25, 2019

All Planned Out

I had morning coffee with the girls and caught up with Mrs Bucket who then, when she left, got caught in the rain and returned to the shop just a little bit damp and who eventually got a lift with Adoring Husband and I, also joined by Woman of Many Talents who had also got caught in the rain!

It was a noisy morning in the back room and everyone looked through the 'pre-loved' and the 'new' clothing that had been partially sorted through and filled the tables, not yet displayed in the shop.

Everyone was gone well before 11am and AH picked us up, dropping the girls off at their houses.

We missed The Brains Trust this morning.

We realised that we needed some food in the house for lunch so we returned to the supermarket and did a quick shop.

AH made lunch - ham, tomato and cheese melts.

We watched a couple of recorded shows from the night before and I had planned on doing some art, but just didn't seem to get to it.

At around 4pm Vegan Chickie phoned and we chatted for 90 minutes. By that time, it was too late to cook the pork ribs that we'd planned, so I ate three mandarins, a handful of crisps and a coconut ice block. Very healthful ... ok just a little bit healthful.

It's now almost 8pm and I think I'd like to go to bed.

Tomorrow, I'm supposed to attend the lady's lunch, but I'm not feeling very motivated about it and I may just withdraw. I'll see how I feel in the morning.





Nite all.

Monday, June 24, 2019

S.O.O.O.

S.O.O.O. stands for State of Origin Overwhelm.

That's why I didn't do a blog post yesterday.

My perfectly delightful Sunday included some art and this shows the three stages of this piece ...




... some fish and chips from the cafe for dinner ... and a big loss for Queensland in the State of Origin.

Overwhelming disappointment at the poor standard of play by the QLD team and the excellent standard of play by NSW. A deserved win by the Blues. Bring on game 3!

Today was my first day off and I stayed in bed until 10am, took my coffee, the 3 psychotic dogs and Adoring Husband to the pool area and sat in the Winter sunshine planning our day.

We left for The Bay at 11.30am and drove to Pialba Place so that AH could buy a book to read while I visited Tinkerbells. (I planned on spending some time in Tinkerbells and he wasn't interested in joining me).

While he was searching for his book, I visited the shoe shop where I purchased a delicious pair of shoes *swoon* which I'll be wearing to the lady's lunch on Wednesday.

It was fortuitous that we landed a 'rockstar carpark' directly opposite Tinkerbells and AH made himself comfortable while I spent almost an hour in the shop. I chatted with Dan who co-owns the store with his Mum, Robyn and I bought a jade and silver ring, a deck of intuition cards called "The Secret Language of Light" and I put a beautiful citrine sphere on lay-by.

We talked about 'genuine' citrine vs 'heat treated' citrine - because I asked the question.  We discussed how quiet business is after the election - and how Tinkerbells have been helped by opening the new shop (a few doors up from the old location).

He showed me lots of his new jewellery and stock that is not on the shelves yet. He explained how the prices of semi-precious gems and crystals fluctuate all the time for no particular reason and he told me how much my two bracelets (blue kyanite and citrine) would sell for at retail (crikey!!).

I really enjoyed chatting with Dan about customers and their unpredictability and the frustrations they can cause sometimes. We shared some good belly laughs and then I realised how long I had left AH in the car and took my leave.

AH had been napping in the car lol. Who can blame hime.

We drove to Aquavue for lunch. It was disappointing. Firstly, it took 45 minutes for our food to arrive and then the food was not as good as it usually is. I have a feeling that there might be a new chef/cook in their kitchen because it wasn't THAT busy.

After lunch, it was time for Stocklands.

While AH had a hair cut, I had a pedicure. Interesting story ...

You know how they sit you in massage chairs while they work on your feet? Well this massage chair felt a little bit different to the usual massage chair! I have been to this particular nail place before and I have been to MANY different nail parlours in my time, but none of them have ever had chairs that massaged a certain part of the body that really shouldn't be massaged in a public arena! It was very specifically tapping and moving in THAT nether region! 😳😳😳

Very discombobulating and I wondered if they were going to charge me extra for this bonus?!

They didn't.

After that, I got myself my favourite Boost Juice - a Mint Condition. We bought some paint and some organza bags for the shop and our final stop was Coles for a few bits and pieces including restocking my coconut ice creams.

It was after 5pm when we arrived home so I cooked dinner straight away. Duck breast with our new favourite nosh up of potato, cauliflower, bok choy and onion all steamed and then fried in gallons of grass fed butter. My mouth is watering just thinking about it!

Gosh! Look at the time! It's heading towards 11pm. I'm off to bed. Coffee with the girls tomorrow.

Nite all.