... And So Much More

I really love this and there are things that I would like to add, for myself, and I'm sure you can think of your own additions that are meaningful. 

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ....
Enough money within her control to move out...
And rent a place of her own
even if she never wants to
or needs to... 

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...
Something perfect to wear if the employer
or date of her dreams wants to See Her in an hour...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...
A youth she's content to leave behind....
A past juicy enough that she's looking forward to
retelling it in her Old Age....

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE .
A set of screwdrivers,
a cordless drill, and a black lace bra...
One friend who always makes her laugh...
And one who lets her cry...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ....
A good piece of furniture not previously owned
by anyone else in her Family...
Eight matching plates,
wine glasses with stems,
And a recipe for a meal that will make
her guests feel Honored...
A feeling of control over her destiny...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
How to fall in love without losing herself..
How to quit a job,
break up with a lover,
and confront a friend without
ruining the friendship...
When to try harder...
And WHEN TO WALK AWAY...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
That she can't change the length of her calves,
The width of her hips,
or the nature of her parents..
That her childhood may not have been perfect...
But it's over...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
What she would and wouldn't do for love or more...
How to live alone...
Even if she doesn't like it...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
Whom she can trust,
Whom she can't,
And why she shouldn't take it personally...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
Where to go...
Be it to her best friend's kitchen table...
Or a charming inn in the woods...
When her soul needs soothing...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
What she can and can't accomplish in a day...
A month...
And a year...

Written by Pamela Redmond Satran

One of my Mothers-in-Law once told me to open a separate bank account and keep enough money in it so that I could move out and rent my own place if it was ever necessary. I thought at the time, that it was strange but excellent advice coming from the mother of my then partner!

Eventually, the need to put that advice into practice became necessary, so it's probably the most useful piece advice that I've ever received! 

I would like to give myself some useful advice right now ...

STOP PROCRASTINATING AND GET BACK TO WORK!!

I have done a lot today, but achieved nothing. Let's see if I can remedy that.

Nite all.

PS In case you haven't looked yet, here is my website ... Romance Your Life with Roz